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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,781 Forumite
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    :wave:

    Good evening here. Been dancing, no bells, no booze:D

    Thats 1AF for October please Shaggy and

    1 for this week's challenge Pen.

    'night all.
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    Hello strangers!!! Well I've finally got a new computer, and kids have gone back to school so I can kick them off it during the day. THought I would catch up with you all, but (GULP) it might take me a while- you lot are still soooo chatty.

    Lots of debate on here at the moment-I'm going to try and catch up on the key points people are making.

    See you soon- Eselt
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning All :hello:

    4 AFDs for me and I've done over a calender month AF now:) which is nice and makes up for unts I drank in the summer.:cool:

    Of to see what you've ll been up to.

    happy_tuesday_4.gif

    Shaggy
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    October:-


    :D = 7 days AF

    :j = target achieved

    Cazza 1/TF

    Clarabell /20

    DB 2/15

    Diable /20

    Pippi 3/TF

    Gien /31

    Happyshopper /15

    HB 7

    Jo 1/TF

    Maman 1/13

    Marru 4/31

    NoyNoy 1/17

    Penelopedee 3/16

    PosieFlump /20

    Puzzcat 1/15

    Random Name 2/15

    Shaggy 4/17

    SOS 2/25

    Trasij 1/23

    Wanna Bee Free 1/16

    Yellow Monkey 2/TF

    115K 1/TF


    PLEASE PUT YOUR AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    jo1972 wrote: »
    not happy with the way they are portraying carla in corrie...
    365days wrote: »
    What's all that about then? Enders fan myself.

    For years she has always been seen with a glass of red wine in her hand but they decided to make her realise she's an alcoholic on Friday's episode when she opened her work drawer and there was a bottle of summat in there so she immediately went off to an AA meeting (or equivelant), long story short, she didn't go into the meeting cos someone she knew was in there but went home and got bladdered to black out after cutting her arm and then the guy who was in the meeting a recovering alcoholic neighbour breaks in to help her. It doesn't happen like this in real life.

    Apologies to Pen, but I screwed up on day 1 of your challenge, but I WILL complete Tues to Thurs, I'm sick of it all.

    Had a !!!!!! day yesterday, got home from work to find that my entire guttering and pipes had fallen off my house :eek:

    Anyway, gotta run, will be late, need to do lunches and stuff.

    Chow for now :wave:

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • jo1972 wrote: »
    For years she has always been seen with a glass of red wine in her hand but they decided to make her realise she's an alcoholic on Friday's episode when she opened her work drawer and there was a bottle of summat in there so she immediately went off to an AA meeting (or equivelant), long story short, she didn't go into the meeting cos someone she knew was in there but went home and got bladdered to black out after cutting her arm and then the guy who was in the meeting a recovering alcoholic neighbour breaks in to help her. It doesn't happen like this in real life.
    xx

    Good point, I hadn't really noticed how the Carla drinking story line came out of nowhere until you said. Hopefully the writers won't have her celebrating her recovery on Thursday with a bottle of champagne in the Rovers ;-)
    Eastender's Phil Mitchell drinking story line was (is) a much more long term issue which I guess makes it a lot more realistic. My drinking escalated over about 15 years before I decided to do something about it.
  • penelopedee_2
    penelopedee_2 Posts: 2,698 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Apologies to Pen

    No worries, I'll put you down for the 3 night special offer :D
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • penelopedee_2
    penelopedee_2 Posts: 2,698 Forumite
    edited 5 October 2010 at 11:08AM
    :j:j Monday to Thursday Challenge :j:j


    Maman :)
    Noynoy :)
    Pen :)
    Pippilongstocking :)
    Puzzcat :)
    Randomname
    Wanna Bee Free :)
    Special offer - 3 nights only - Tues to Thurs
    anyone want to join us? :)
    Jo
    I don't mind listing 1 night only if you just want to pledge AF for the day :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    oooh can i join in the 4 day challenge please?
    jo i tried your homemade kfc..yum yum yum yum lol had it a few times now ..and yes the boiled milk remains do make a lovely chicken soup ! thanks for sharing!

    1 more af night please scorer xx


    now im off to enjoy 2.5 hrs with no kiddies in peace just me yay! have a great day all xx
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    do you know what hurts? what really really hurts ...

    watching your best friend, the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with kill themself and knowing there is nothing nothing at all that you can do to stop it.... watching your marriage slowly die but finding yourself unwilling to give up until you can be able to say to yourself well i know i did my best ... i know there was nothing more i could do....

    almost finding yourself wishing you believed in god so that you could pray for a miracle cause it looks like nothing else will cut it ... seeing a glimpse of the future for the man you love ... knowing he will loose everything EVERYTHING that means something to him ... to be replaced with drinking buddies and living in squalor till he gets sooooo ill he gets taken into hopsital where he will slowly die an agonising death ....

    that really really hurts


    just wanted to share this with you all please dont think i am trying to be nasty or anything ... this is just where i am at just now and really wish i wasnt .... does anyone have any advice of what i can do to help hubby ?
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