Life after bankruptcy?

crumbling

morning nohope

thank you for your good wishes yesterday - much appreciated x

hope your sorting of your stuff is going ok? (apologies if 'stuff' seems a bit blase - it isn't meant to be but i don't feel that 'belongings' is the right word to use...).

packing up and getting out is NOT easy. i really do commend people who can genuinely just 'move on' but i do wonder how much of that IS genuine and how much of it is actually being good at putting on a brave face.

to this day i have no idea how i moved out of that house so quickly (just to set the scene, it was 3 days before christmas, my child was 6 and i wanted to be moved away from there as this would be the first year daddy was awol). all i can say is to start looking at what you really want and pick those items out rather than facing a mountain of stuff and trying to make a pile of keep and a pile of go. if you're like me, by the time you've packed half of what you really think you want to keep, you'll be sick of it and then be even harsher on your 'keep' choices:D

thats just made me smile though, remembering the second time i moved - 7 months later. i hadn't got around to unpacking half of the boxes so the morning the van arrived, i was sat waiting for them:).

next move was worse tho as i must've started to put down roots after over 2 years there......

so, do what you can on the days you feel up to it mate. some days this will seem like a lot and some days, just moving will be too much of an effort.

thinking of you x

savingwannabe

You know i am going to bug you forever now. Please stay, you have too many friends here to stop writing. Besides i feel like i am communicating with Holden Caulfield from the Catcher in the Rye. You cannot leave ok? And you play the bl**dy trumpet. I have never met a trumpet player before. You are officially stalked No Hope and you can't leave ok?

Said i was a nutter didn't I????

savingwannabe

I think my fingers just fell off. i like you. You have been stalked. I came, i saw and i liked. You are not ALLOWED to leave. If you leave i will stop eating Bacon and Cake and i shall starve.

Emotional blackmail, kitX

savingwannabe

When my jeans fall off i will blame you. The pig industry will lose all their money. And the recyclers will not get any more cake boxes. So you cannot leave ok????????

3Dogs

Hello there No Hope - 3Dogs here to introduce herself - sorry to disrupt your peaceful thread

I have a diary too - SW says that you have been reading it - that is good :j :j :j :j Even if you don't find that you can post there as we are chatting so much, I do hope that you continue to read it - perhaps our mad chatter can make you feel a little better about things or at least take you out of your problems for a while - that is just as important you know. I have read your whole thread and know what you are going through. We all have our demons and everyone has different ways of dealing with them - I do hope that you can find your way through all this - I know it will be worth it at the end of that journey

I think that I saw on another thread that you had found somewhere else to move too when you leave your present home? I hope I've got that right? if so, at least that is good news

People do care about you - do not feel alone in all this as it is too much to bear on your own hun

steviehants

Just dropping by to say Hello No Hope.

savingwannabe

You are not washing your hair. Stay and read this. People care. And dang, i like your taste in music.

savingwannabe

No hope is on our thread everyone find them and say hi!!!! This is like a mad comedy!!!

savingwannabe

No hope they want me to bake a cake. Can you cook help?????

ani_26

Tkanks everybody.

Ah well, over hill and dale, trudge, trudge............................................