Life after bankruptcy?

mollymiss

dear ani 26 i live near milton kynes what a shane you dont live near me i would take you sailing for free and if you like i could take you fishing for cod and feed you for free keep going dont give up please .

So_Sad_Angel

Good news about the sailing club ani...having an interest like that makes such a big difference to your motivation and self esteem.:j:j

Your garden sounds lovely...the gardens are really taking off now. I have bluebells,whitebells and forget-me-nots lining my garden paths and the fragrance is gorgeous. You are lucky that you have the opportunity to be outside rather than tied to an office....just enjoy the moment.

Thanks for the hug. I am feeling better by the day.

Angiexx

ani_26

mollymiss wrote: »

dear ani 26 i live near milton kynes what a shane you dont live near me i would take you sailing for free and if you like i could take you fishing for cod and feed you for free keep going dont give up please .

Ok, i'll move to milton keynes x

I'll take you up on the free sail, thanks

ani_26

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Good news about the sailing club ani...having an interest like that makes such a big difference to your motivation and self esteem.:j:j

You reckon? I can't even think anymore

It probably would do, a) if realistically i could afford it, and b) if i had the physical and mental capabilities.

Writing this diary is the sum total of cerebral activity.

ani_26

Sigh..................

Thats the way it is today. Maybe i did too much in the garden, yesterday. Thats sad, isn't it? How come it took so long? and how does the time pass so quickly? I should be bored by now.

It was good of someone to say they would actually make an effort for a stranger, and ask the committe to consider. I still probably won't be able to afford it, unless i can get my head around reclaiming my mileage.I don't actually care. Its too much stress. I'm trying to avoid stress, but it still keeps to seem winging my way. But i'm willing to invest my time, in return. Time is something i have, isn't it. For now. Time is free. I never had the time when i was working. Or latterly, the funds, for that matter.

*** gone into my bank account. Now have to pay to go into town and grovel at the bank, to reclaim my benefit. Thats todays task then, and maybe do a spot of weeding, and yes, go for a walk this evening. Might as well do something that's me. They are never going to manage 10 miles in a evening are they? Thank god.


I still can't actually " deal " with life, as the slightest thing tips me over the edge. I still don't have the mental and physical capabilities. Its so frustrating. Hiw can people understand?

beanielou

People can understand because they have been there in their own way.

miggy

Wrote a post and scrapped it - to summarise, could you set aside a short period of time say every other day to work towards the mileage claim? Set the timer on your phone and when it goes off, pack things away for the time being. think of it as working towards sailing, not as mileage that inevitably has negative associations (easier said than done I know).

I know something of what it's like to lose the mental ability to deal with something - it still happens to me to some extent, but it's coming back. It's like any sort of physical damage: it takes a while to heal.

Being able to see your situation objectively is good sign, I think.

Molly, what a lovely post! You're a star. :T

mollymiss

hi ani26 pop in to see how you are doing today i really did mean what i said i have a boat and if ever you are down my way i will take you out for a sailing and free dinner and drink or 2 will be on her tonight as sailing tomorr will be thinking of you have a good weekend x

miggy

Sorry I've not been around this evening - keep losing computer to DS2. How has today been? Apart from sweltering... I know you don't like heat.

ani_26

mollymiss wrote: »

hi ani26 pop in to see how you are doing today i really did mean what i said i have a boat and if ever you are down my way i will take you out for a sailing and free dinner and drink or 2 will be on her tonight as sailing tomorr will be thinking of you have a good weekend x

In that case, i'll be thinking of you x