**Weekend Chat Thread 18/19th Sep Day 7 of the challenge!

ghostmadlittlemiss · 18 September 2010 at 4:53PM

bookseller1980 wrote: »

4. I am happily married to a loving, kind, faithful, Christian man.
Not much I can do about that one – do they exist?

Well, my grandad's one, so I can confirm they exist. Unfortunately for you, he's in his 80s and taken!

If the Christian bit is definately needed, then maybe try going to a different church one time and chatting to some of the people there, as I presume you know everyone at the one you go to. That's the only suggestion I can think of at the moment, I'm afraid. Besides, considering my past experience of inter-religious dating, I'm not sure I should be giving advice to anyone! :rotfl:
Kayleigh

bookseller1980 · 18 September 2010 at 5:06PM

ghostmadlittlemiss wrote: »

Well, my grandad's one, so I can confirm they exist. Unfortunately for you, he's in his 80s and taken! If the Christian bit is definately needed, then maybe try going to a different church one time and chatting to some of the people there, as I presume you know everyone at the one you go to. That's the only suggestion I can think of at the moment, I'm afraid. Besides, considering my past experience of inter-religious dating, I'm not sure I should be giving advice to anyone! :rotfl:
Kayleigh

It's not really a priority Kayleigh. I am generally ok with my own company but sometimes a little hug would be nice.

clairewop · 18 September 2010 at 5:09PM

I've just answered a very upsetting phone call

The wood turner who i have a lift to craft fairs has died

bookseller1980 · 18 September 2010 at 5:15PM

Hugs Claire.
Obviously unexpected?

lizzie_b · 18 September 2010 at 5:18PM

Oh Claire thats awful news, sending hugs your way.
And Bookie, have a hug too

xxxxxx

LouiseJ · 18 September 2010 at 5:26PM

Sorry to hear that Claire

Bookie my Mum is around the same age as you (a little older) and she has joined a local dating agency, not much sucess on the romance front but she has met some really nice people and is still friendly with a couple (not the one who tried to hold her hand on the first date though):eek:

She also volunteers for the local countryside rangers through our county council........almost all blokes;)

LouiseJ · 18 September 2010 at 5:33PM

BB I think your OH is just lazy and wants to make an easy investment. Can you imagine what would happen if anything happened to the property damage wise, you would never hear the end of it and would be expected to sort it out.

I could write a list as long as this page for the reasons against it to be honest.

I think that telling your ex about it is a good idea but I doubt very much whether he would stop the sale going through as its just too risky for him.

Plus you couldnt have 2 of your ex's linked to that house:eek:

I am now fantisysing that you will dump him like Den did with Angie on Eastenders on Xmas day............

clairewop · 18 September 2010 at 5:50PM

It was a shock, not sure how he died his wife was too upset to talk,

he had an op last week and keyhole surgery in aug for a lump or something found in his bladder, but other than that I don't know.

Very sad, he was such a loving caring man (when we were doing craft in the bay in the summer he would sit away from me when he was eating his lunch as he knew i was doing cd and didn't want me to feel hungry while he was eating his sandwiches)