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MSE Parents Club Part 14

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  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    Michelle - hugs. Others have given you sound advice and not sure if it helps knowing we've all been there before! Have you thought about leaving her for a bit when she wakes up at 5 - she may drop back off since I doubt she's genuinely hungry having already fed twice in the night. Just a thought, as it's not everyone's parenting style! What we do chez Aless is since I still get up to feed at 2am, DH gets up with Finn at 6am (though sometime he does wake earlier) so he can play with him before he goes to work. It works out VERY well as mummy gets some extra sleep and daddy gets to see his baby a bit more :)

    hammy, soooo pleased you're finally getting some sleep at last!! Finn also still has a 2am feed so maybe one day we'll both get a complete night's sleep :p. Glad his eczema has cleared up at well, go David! :T

    Those leggings are fabulous, I want to order about 3 pairs! Would you just wear them as normal trousers, then?
    top 2013 wins: iPad, £50 dental care, £50 sportswear, £50 Nectar GC, £300 B&Q GC; jewellery, Bumbo, 12xPringles, 2xDiesel EDT, £25 Morrisons, £50 Loch Fyne

    would like to win a holiday, please!!
    :xmassmile Mummy to Finn - 12/09; Micah - 08/12! :j
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    MichelleM wrote: »
    I know this sounds daft but I wouldnt want DH getting up at 5am if he has to work all day. When he comes back he does spend what precious times he has with her. He also does loads of household things- the only thing he doesnt really do is cook.
    It doesn't sound daft and it's great that he does contribute to the household jobs and spends time with A but it sounds like the distribution of the jobs (i.e. you doing all the night feeds and early mornings) is problematical. If he could do the night feeds and early morning on one of the weekend nights I'm sure it would make a huge difference to you and how you're feeling and the trade off in terms of you needing to do other things which he would have done would be worth it for the unbroken/longer night.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • Ive just bought e some panda leggings, if I like them i am so getting more
    Debt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid Off
    Mortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
    £79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off

    Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
    HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
    Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
    Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20

    Asda Savings - £0

    POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80

    ~ Emergency Savings: £0

    My Debt Free Diary (Link)
  • Hmm oh has agreed for e to stay at his mams on sat night, but he's already staying at my mams tomorrow, i don't want him to stay out two nights in a row, but don't want to disappoint anyone :(
    Debt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid Off
    Mortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
    £79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off

    Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
    HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
    Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
    Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20

    Asda Savings - £0

    POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80

    ~ Emergency Savings: £0

    My Debt Free Diary (Link)
  • gill_81uk
    gill_81uk Posts: 2,851 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Name Dropper
    My amazon voucher has also bounced...shock! Grrrrr not happy
    Mummy to Thomas born April 27th 2010 8lb 5oz
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    3 days to go on my ebay watches.... i am the MOST impatient person ever! LOL
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    I've just emailed the BP person they mention in the forum thread about it but the Money Making Gifty people said the same happened to a few of them and they got no reply. I think they were just emailing the regular "promos @" address though.
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    just attempted the SS spreadsheet... its fantastic!!!!

    just the click of a button and all that!
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • Ss spreadsheet?
    Debt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid Off
    Mortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
    £79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off

    Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
    HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
    Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
    Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20

    Asda Savings - £0

    POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80

    ~ Emergency Savings: £0

    My Debt Free Diary (Link)
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    CAFCGirl wrote: »
    Secret Santa - The Final Plan

    Anyone who would like to be involved with secret santa, please pm me with the following:

    1. Ages of your kids that you'd like involved come Xmas
    2. Any allergies that you or your littles ones suffer from
    3. Address.

    Please note :

    From the preliminary round the following have been set
    You'd be buying a gift for mum and kiddies (the pairings are done based on similar circumstance, e.g multiples with other multiples)

    There is a £10 spending guide (as everyone's budgets are different but a guide means noone feels pressured to spending more than they've got) in total.

    PM's must be received by 10 November so that the pairings can be allocated and gives people plenty of time to shop/post/make

    Just quoting this. PM'd you.
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