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Trying for a Baby Part Six

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  • smash7
    smash7 Posts: 424 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    pinkpig08 wrote: »
    Got all excited as no AF when I woke up, rushed to do a test - BFN :(

    Same story here. CD26(22) and another BFN this morning with a chemist cheappie. :( Based on average cycles, I ovulated anywhere between 20th and 24th December. I was ill in bed until the 28th (I think) so if I ovulated any later, AF should be here by now. Still bit of hope that pains on 7th Jan were implantation (a bit far fetched, I know) and that HcG is not enough yet to be detected by the tests I've taken.

    Smash xx
    Que Sera, Sera
  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    I'm hoping that too smash. I ov'd on 28th December, had no pains since then, no signs, nothing. I almost convince myself that the tests must be rubbish, but I know they're not. I've done so well this month, I've not been thinking about it every day, thinking what CD I'm on and how long until testing. I only caved once on Friday night. I keep rushing to the loo if I 'feel' anything to see if AF is here! I am normal - aren't I??
    Sealed Pot Challenge #817 £50 banked :)
  • Jen151
    Jen151 Posts: 403 Forumite
    Lol yes totally normal pinkpig. it can drive you mad wondering am i or am i not!! x
    ~ Team Sticky ~

  • Hi Charlie,
    Yeah, Im going to the docs Tuesday, hoping there's nothing wrong, but also for a little bit of help.

    Those do sounds like very long cycles, it may well have something to do with coming off the pill though, I know what you mean about before the pill though, I used to think it was a blessing if my cycles were long as it meant I didn't have to put up with AF so much :rotfl:
    Lets hope we both settle down soon and get those BFP's! Good luck if you're going to test tomorrow hun.

    I hope the doctors goes well Tuesday :)

    Your post made me laugh, it's exactly what I used to think years ago when i didn't get periods every month:rotfl:...little did I know it might be a sign of problems in the future when I wanted children!

    Well I got a BFN this morning as expected, so now CD62....I just want AF to start....arrggghhhh!!!

    Can everyone give me an idea of how long thier longest cycles were after coming off the pill?

    x
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Two questions, would you recommend buying the fertility monitor thingy (think its about £60) and what is the book that some of you have previously mentioned ??
    I'd recommend buying CBFM:) Some people found it stressful, but I find not knowing more stressful:p
    You can sell it on ebay after you've finished with it.
    Cara79 wrote: »
    How do you ladies "switch off" & not think about getting pregnant....or is that something people just say? I've not been trying long - 4 months - but i must think about it every day. Even my OH.
    I just keep busy. But it's impossible to switch off completely:o
    QQ - it just takes once to to get that bean so hope its your month!
    We BD'd before I got ewcm:( But still can't help hoping:p
    I was thinking about going to the doctors after this next cycle if it's as long as I really don't think it's normal :mad:. Before I started the pill i used to go a couple of months with no AF but I never really realised it was a problem!

    I'm going to test in the morning again just in case.
    Your hormones are taking a while to settle down.
    Good luck tomorrow:)
    MrsExcited wrote: »
    Can I ask another question??
    What colour is EWCM supposed to be? Is it supposed to be transparent like real egg white?
    Mine's like snot:p
    phunkles wrote: »
    QQ :grouphug:
    Annnnyyyyhoooooo maybe this month who knows not like we've picked names, bedroom decor, godparents etc because obviously we wouldnt do that if we were just leaving it to fate :lol: im laughing on here about it but inside im crying
    I've told my side of the family that we've given up TTC:o
    robyn297 wrote: »
    :mad::mad::mad:UUUURRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHH:mad::mad::mad:

    My mum was here on holiday about 2 months ago(she lives overseas) She hinted at grandkids and I told her we ttc..........BIG MISTAKE!!!!
    Have to get pg asap then:D
    Anyhoooo I'm off to Docs on Monday night. When I went a couple of months back she said if we had had no luck by January to come back to see her and she would refer us for further testing. I'm not overly concerned as I had all the testing 9 or 10 years ago. I just want to put my mind at ease that nothing has changed in that time.
    Good luck with the tests:)
    pinkpig08 wrote: »
    Got all excited as no AF when I woke up, rushed to do a test - BFN :( But I keep telling myself it's because I'm still only 12dpo as I have a short LP. AF is usually bang on time but it looks like this month she's going to play with my head!
    It's not over 'till the witch shows:o
    smash7 wrote: »
    Same story here. CD26(22) and another BFN this morning with a chemist cheappie. :( Based on average cycles, I ovulated anywhere between 20th and 24th December. I was ill in bed until the 28th (I think) so if I ovulated any later, AF should be here by now. Still bit of hope that pains on 7th Jan were implantation (a bit far fetched, I know) and that HcG is not enough yet to be detected by the tests I've taken.
    If you implanted on 7th, then give it a couple of days for the HSG to build up:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list

    Tue 5th Jan - Smash7
    Fri 14th Jan - QQuaver
    Mon 19th Jan - Maire1
    Tue 18th Jan - Jen151
    Thu 20th Jan - KimmyMarky
    Sometime in April - Blue Monkey
    Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree


    January graduates
    Little Angel (28) TTC#1 since 10/10 BFP 05/01/11:j
    ddebski_us (30) TTC#1 since 06/10 (1 MC 10/10) BFP 08/01/11:j
    Puzzledbubbles (28) TTC#1 since 10/10 BFP 07/01/11:j
    Bambywamby (38) TTC #2 since 02/10 BFP 8/01/11:j

    January BFP predictions
    I love holidays - 3
    ddebski - 5
    QQuaver - 6
    Pinkpig - 6 (including self)
    Jen151 - 7
    Smash - 7
    Welsh Polar Bear - 8
    Kellyg - 11
    x_Charlie_x - 13
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Team Sticky - Preseed/Conceive plus users!



    CD37 QQuaver - 11DPO:cool:
    CD21 Deborah - 7DPO:cool:
    CD20 Jen151 - 6DPO:cool:
    CD18 Skint-Catt - Awaiting ov:o
    CD18 calamityclare - Awaiting ov:o
    CD14 GG - Awaiting ov:o
    CD13 ilovecushions - Awaiting ov:o
    CD12 Jules68 - Awaiting ov:o
    CD10 Pawpurrs - Awaiting ov:o
    CD Tinksy -
    CD Must try harder -
    CD TwigPig -



    Graduates!

    Fantafan:j
    Madbird:j
    Anderson8:j
    Doglover:j
    Little Angel:j
  • katenut
    katenut Posts: 530 Forumite
    pinkpig08 wrote: »
    I'm hoping that too smash. I ov'd on 28th December, had no pains since then, no signs, nothing. I almost convince myself that the tests must be rubbish, but I know they're not. I've done so well this month, I've not been thinking about it every day, thinking what CD I'm on and how long until testing. I only caved once on Friday night. I keep rushing to the loo if I 'feel' anything to see if AF is here! I am normal - aren't I??

    Totally normal Pinkpig - I've been doing the same since yesterday morning!! I'm sure DH thinks I've got something wrong with me..... :)

    CD29(28), though I'm sure AF is just teasing me this month! BFN on Friday, trying to wait until tomorrow to test again. Daren't get my hopes up too much!

    On the subject of pressure/comments from other people our families never ever mention it, so I guess we're lucky. My SIL knows we've been trying but she is very tactful, though she is one of those lucky people who falls pregnant at the drop of a hat! I suffer more from comments from friends/acquaintances who assume that as we got married last year I should be pregnant by now.
    Trying to jump back onto the moneysaving wagon .... :cool:
  • x_Charlie_x
    x_Charlie_x Posts: 138 Forumite
    edited 9 January 2011 at 12:36PM
    QQuaver wrote: »

    Your hormones are taking a while to settle down.
    Good luck tomorrow:)

    Thanks. I guess as long as it's normal for it to be this long i'll wait it out and see what happens next cycle :o

    EDIT: I wanted to say as well, because i was so sure AF was coming a couple of days before Christmas and had the syptoms up until boxing day and haven't had any since, does anyone know what that's about?

    x
  • MrsRogers
    MrsRogers Posts: 631 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Morning all

    AF finally arrived this morning after a 36 day cycle :eek:

    So CD1 for me and fingers crossed for a better month and catching a bean :)
    Goal - We want to be mortgages free :j

    I Quit Smoking March 2010 :T
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