Trying for a Baby Part Six

euronorris

Farewell WW! Taking a break will probably do you both the world of good and allow you to reconnect and have a lot of fun in bed together again! I suspect he is probably feeling a lot of pressure, and maybe when you don't fall pregnant that month, he feels like a failure. So now, he wants to avoid it, cos if he doesn't even try, then he can't fail at it.

I hope you start having lots of fun together soon!

Congratulations Sparkle! Your OH is probably a little shellshocked. Give him a chance to wrap his head round it too and I'm sure he'll be fine.

HUGS for everyone who needs one!!!

Have good days all!

x

pawpurrs

Wonderwomble, it is hard for the men, to perform on demand, perhaps a relaxed approach would be better as long as your both sure its what you want, we only tried for a couple of weeks last time, and I know Dh was allready starting to get grumpy and then he got grumpy it happened so quickly, as thats all the frantic bding done :rotfl:Cant win!

Sparkle big congratulations:j Your OH reaction is normal too, its a shock for both of you, even though its what you wanted, my hibby was the same and then the delight sunk in a couple of days later, and he was as proud as a peacock splutting it out to everyone in the next few days following with a big smile on his face.
Huge congratulations! :j

Gravesendgirl

Massive (((HUGS))) WW

No good news from me I'm afraid. Did test and was BFN and am now sure AF is on her was. I am going to bow out as well as I am putting far too much pressure on myself and making myself really unhappy every month. It has not passed me by that I got pg before during the one month when I forgot all about TTC.

Good luck to you all xx

smash7

Just wanted to say good luck to WW and gravesendgirl. It is sad to see you go but looking forward to when you pop back in and let us know you have a bfp!!

We have only been TTC for a short time so, I don't feel pressurised at the moment but I can imagine how that could change after TTC for some months. 'Making' a baby is amazing and it should not be a 'chore' IMO. ((Hugs)) to you both and I hope a more relaxed/natural approach is just what you need! xxx

smash7

Congrats on your BFP sparkle :j

QQuaver

:j:j:jCongratulations Sparkle76!:j:j:j
BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!

QQuaver

Gravesendgirl wrote: »

I am going to bow out as well as I am putting far too much pressure on myself and making myself really unhappy every month. It has not passed me by that I got pg before during the one month when I forgot all about TTC.

Don't forget to post back when you get your BFP:)

Greener_Grass

I'll really miss you WW, hope you are back here to join us soon xxx

The same to you GEG, it's sad to see people leaving!

Well CD42, 15dpo, still no AF :eek: but temp went below the coverline this morning so its not looking good!:(

Blue_Monkey

Greener_Grass wrote: »

CD42

Same here :beer:

Seem to have got spotty and OH reckons I must be due on as I've been grumpy since I got home from work tonight so I think AF might be on her way for me.... Hope she stays away for you though GG.

Greener_Grass

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

Same here :beer:

Seem to have got spotty and OH reckons I must be due on as I've been grumpy since I got home from work tonight so I think AF might be on her way for me.... Hope she stays away for you though GG.

I'm really spotty just now too! How funny!

Maybe we'll be cycle buddies next month as well then, How many dpo are you? Last month i only had an 11 LP so this is quite strange for me! I'm not feeling hopefull!:cool: