Trying for a Baby Part Six

QQuaver

smash7 wrote: »

Our new driveway was finished today (it was all grass before, now it is block paving). It's not even 6 hours old and already someone has parked in front of it!!!

Congrats on new driveway! I'd love block paving:)
Pity someone parked in front of it, perhaps they thought it was still grass:D

Wonder_Womble wrote: »

Every month when it gets to ov time OH gets himself into a bad mood

Good idea to take the pressure of ttc off for a while. Who knows, it might jump start the beany:p
Good luck, and do report back when you get your BFP:)

fantafan

((Hugs)) WW. Sometimes when left to fate is the best option. I gave up and was beside myself when I got my BFP as I'd built my hopes up so much for DTD on both peak days. We made neither.
Just be happy. You'll report back here in a few months with your BFP advising everybody to ditch the CBFM and schedules for a more relaxed approach.

Take care chick x

portsmouthali

I'll miss you WW. Men are weird and ttc is stressful hope things work out for you, keep in touch xx

pinkpig08

I know what you mean WW. My DH falls asleep on the sofa in the evening lately. I for one am definitely not waking him up for bd. I kind of think - well if he's not interested why should I be?

Although we did make up yesterday and he actually made the first move to bd last night. But now, again, he is snoring opposite me. I get fed up of waiting for ov time, then it being awkward if he's asleep or whatever.

I hope you get your BFP when you are least trying - the beans like to surprise us like that sometimes

phunkles

delurks
WW I shall miss your posts
relurks

sparkle76

Hi WonderWomble, sorry to hear things are hard right now with OH, it can be so much pressure and make it less natural. Maybe if you do get back to normal a bit you can come away from this deadlock and talk about it in the future.
I must admit this is part of the reason I have not been on the thread for a good while, as I was thinking about things too much, worrying, comparing myself to others and feeling like it was all I could think of.

Seems it worked, scarily we found out a few days ago we're PG (checked with various tests just in case). I was happy and told OH Tues eve, he was happy and shocked just as I was. Thing is that then last night as soon as he got home he went to meet a friend at the pub within 10mins of getting home, we barely had a chance to talk as I was already in bed when he got back (5 hours later). I figure he just needed to spend time with his thoughts and talk about mundane things with a friend, but it's stung a bit and he didn't say much before leaving today, so very emotional times right now when I need more support from him. Still, I think it will take both of us a while to sink in.

Sorry to offload, I don't quite know where to post right now, just feeling a bit confused and can't talk to anyone in the 'real' world about it.

natsing

Sorry to see you leave WW, hope you get everything sorted with DH. Its CD10 and high for me, successful DTD last night following another long talk, think we've just been in a rut, hoping to kick start everything now.

portsmouthali

A BFP Sparkle?!?!?! Congratulations! xxxxx:T:T:T:j:j:j Your OH is probably just a bit shellshocked, I'm sure he'll be fine soon enough as I said before, men are weird.

Well I woke up to (tmi alert) an avalanche of ECWM (first time I've ever really noticed this) so despite the negative OPKs I've been getting, I took the opportunity to jump on OH before woke up well you never know!!

Off to take DS to school and then onto work, hope everyone has a good day xxxx

fantafan

Yeay BFP Sparkle76. :j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

Congratulations (love the subtlety!)

Blue_Monkey

Farewell WW Best of luck to you. I agree that taking a break from this thread can help detract from the job in hand. The girls on here are wonderfully supportive, but its all too easy to get obsessed with checking on here for updates/news/test results and feeling like its getting a bit all-consuming. I've been lurking for months after joining here aaaages ago talking about how we're waiting TTC and since my irregular cycle this month half of my day has been spent thinking about telling you guys the latest (which btw, is that I'm on CD42, tested again this morning and got bfn, thought AF had turned, but was just more CM).

Saying that, if you need to come back you'll always be welcome!

Massive congrats Sparkle When are you due?