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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Thats right, I was signed off sick right up till the day i was booked for mat leave (my leave was booked to start this week which is 4 weeks before my due date) but if i wasnt meant to start it until a week or two from now it would have kicked in this week if i were still signed off sick (not sure if my rambling makes sense, sorry!) x

    THANKS Ladies knew I could count on you x

    I thought I was correct the wording is not very clear on Direct Gov.

    So Basicaly I am now on sick leave until 1st Nov when I will be on Mat leave as this is 4 weeks before my due date......

    Is that right???
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • Gems81
    Gems81 Posts: 141 Forumite
    :j:jCongratulations Rach!!! Leo is so gorgeous - sorry to hear things werent straight forward, but he is here safe and sound and perfect!! :j:j

    Im booked in for a sweep tomorrow, the midwife is phoning me with a time in the morning. Hope it works coz im getting so restless and uncomfortable and finding it impossible to sleep at night which is making me so grumpy, also my pelvis is not coping well with the weight of the baby and im in so much pain every time i stand up:(
    :heart:Baby No.1 due 27/9/10:heart:
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Gems81 wrote: »
    :j:jCongratulations Rach!!! Leo is so gorgeous - sorry to hear things werent straight forward, but he is here safe and sound and perfect!! :j:j

    Im booked in for a sweep tomorrow, the midwife is phoning me with a time in the morning. Hope it works coz im getting so restless and uncomfortable and finding it impossible to sleep at night which is making me so grumpy, also my pelvis is not coping well with the weight of the baby and im in so much pain every time i stand up:(

    Good Luck for tomorrow Gems :A
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • jmf76
    jmf76 Posts: 363 Forumite
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    Rach - congrats, photos are gorgeous

    Gems81 - all the best for tomorrow

    Tink - hope it all goes well with the boss

    Congrats and welcome to the newbies.

    Well I'm off into hospital tomorrow morning to be induced (unless someone decides otherwise tonight - I've just had curry, pineapple & RLT as my 'last meal' to see if I can persuade them :rotfl:), so whilst I may be on here lurking first thing tomorrow, the next time I reply I'll WILL be talking about the new arrival rather than moaning about it being late :o.

    Labour vibes to all that need them in the meantime.

    jmf x

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  • jmf76 wrote: »
    Rach - congrats, photos are gorgeous

    Gems81 - all the best for tomorrow

    Tink - hope it all goes well with the boss

    Congrats and welcome to the newbies.

    Well I'm off into hospital tomorrow morning to be induced (unless someone decides otherwise tonight - I've just had curry, pineapple & RLT as my 'last meal' to see if I can persuade them :rotfl:), so whilst I may be on here lurking first thing tomorrow, the next time I reply I'll WILL be talking about the new arrival rather than moaning about it being late :o.

    Labour vibes to all that need them in the meantime.

    jmf x

    Hope it all goes well. Good luck. Will be thinking of you.

    Was lovely to see the new arrivals, Congrats all.:beer:

    Nice scan pics and bump pics. :)

    I had the results of my maternal echochardiogram and everything is fine so roll on natural delivery, thats a weight off my mind :D
    :heart2::love:Married 03/09/2005:love::heart2:
    :heart2::smileyheaBaby Wesley Born 03/02/2011:smileyhea:heart2:
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    tinkwings wrote: »
    So went to see the Doc this evening and she has signed me off until my due date :eek::eek::eek:

    QUESTION - Anyone know how it works with Mat Leave & being sick??? Is it right that my mat leave will automatically when I have 4 weeks before my due date???

    So am I correct to think that I will now be on sick leave for 4 weeks then on Mat Leave from 1st Nov?????

    Any help/advice would be fab as I am going to need to face my boss with this tomorrow which I am dreading :o

    This is correct honey - at 36 weeks they can "force" you onto mat pay / leave and it will be sick pay / leave up until that point.

    In fact its the 4 weeks prior to the Sunday before your due date (does that make sense?)

    xx
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    edited 28 September 2010 at 10:50PM
    tink - DO NOT worry about your boss - in fact, you dont even have to go in - let them know you are now signed off and forward your sick note - the last thing that you need is to be worrying about them!!

    rach - he's beautiful, glad you are home safe and sound :D

    erm, everyone else - appropriate vibes :o

    Here's my 33 week bump pic:

    33.jpg
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Hi all, not sure I am gonna be able to catch up for a while, but congrats to all those that have given birth and congrats to all the newbies.

    Am sure someone may well have told you all, but Luke was born on 05/09 weighing 8 lb. He's not been very well, so only just brought him home. He's doing well now though.
  • MERFE
    MERFE Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    morning all

    jmf good luck for today xx

    Rach congrats on the little man, glad it is all going well x

    hassle good to hear from you, glad little one is now home xx

    I was told by customers I shouldn't be at work last night and no one believes there is only one in there when I tell them how long I've got left now, I know I'm huge but I still have 3 weeks at work and even then I think my maternity is starting early.
  • Gems81
    Gems81 Posts: 141 Forumite
    Good Luck for today JMF looking forward to hearing from you when the little one is here!! :)

    Ive been awake since 4am worrying!!:(
    :heart:Baby No.1 due 27/9/10:heart:
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