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MSE Pregnancy Club 19

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  • Make-it-3
    Make-it-3 Posts: 1,661 Forumite
    I find myself getting infuriated now when I see a fictional birth on TV or film. Even though this will be my first, just from reading I can see how far fetched some of these scenes are.

    I don't think reading or hearing others birth stories helps as everyone is different also I think some people just love to show off about what heroines they've been and are prone to exaggerate how long they've been in labour, blood loss, pain etc etc.

    I do think that through reading and understanding the process and what might happen to me has made me a bit calmer about the whole birth thing.
    We Made-it-3 on 28/01/11 with birth of our gorgeous DD.
  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    FYI £15 off £20 spend at Vertbaudet:j:j Just got 2 cotbed sheets and a pair of maternity trousers for £6:money: not bad considering I was looking at cot bed sheets that are about £10 just for one:eek::D

    LINKY to original post

    leggings and bf pyjamas for £6.80 for me.
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
    MFW 2012 no86 OP 0/2000 :D
  • LilacPixie wrote: »
    leggings and bf pyjamas for £6.80 for me.
    Another grabbit fan eh??:D I do love a good bargain:p:D
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • Chakani
    Chakani Posts: 826 Forumite
    Make-it-3 wrote: »
    I find myself getting infuriated now when I see a fictional birth on TV or film. Even though this will be my first, just from reading I can see how far fetched some of these scenes are.

    I don't think reading or hearing others birth stories helps as everyone is different also I think some people just love to show off about what heroines they've been and are prone to exaggerate how long they've been in labour, blood loss, pain etc etc.

    I do think that through reading and understanding the process and what might happen to me has made me a bit calmer about the whole birth thing.

    I think you're absolutely right. And, to be honest, you tend to hear more about the ones where something goes wrong, because there is more to talk about. That makes it seem like there are more complicated births than there really are. I've never written up my birth story as there seems no point, as it wasn't very dramatic.

    I found it really helpful to understand the mechanics of how the cervix dilates and how the baby gets through the pelvis, it made me feel calmer and more in control.

    I'm looking forward far more to this birth than I was to the last one, simply because I know better what to expect.
  • lilian1977
    lilian1977 Posts: 5,157 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    CAn't make the Vertbaudet thing work :(
    My debt free diary | Post Office loan: £2131 1429.38 | Barclaycard: £4429 1988.12 | Paypal Credit £322.71 574.91 | Monzo Flex £169.03 |

    Total £4151.44 | £2900.30 of £7051.74 paid off since diary started October 2024.
  • I agree too chakani.

    I'm trying to look at the whole child birth thing as being something of a challenge, and in a strange way I'm kind of (can't believe I'm typing this!) looking forward to it as such.

    Mind you give me a few more weeks and I'll probably be a nervous wreck!:eek::rotfl:
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    Another grabbit fan eh??:D I do love a good bargain:p:D

    God yeah. If i know what were were having i would of been at the amost 40% off tesco new line clothes too. Did you see that post?
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
    MFW 2012 no86 OP 0/2000 :D
  • pukkamum
    pukkamum Posts: 3,944 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Yipee for the code got a baby nest for £8!!!!
    I don't get nearly enough credit for not being a violent psychopath.
  • LilacPixie wrote: »
    God yeah. If i know what were were having i would of been at the amost 40% off tesco new line clothes too. Did you see that post?
    Ooo yeah :) so glad that we're Team Yelllow too:o Could quite happily have spent a small fortune if we knew the flavour:D

    Well done Pukka:j

    lilian quite a few people have said they're having problems :( hope you manage to sort it!
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • MERFE
    MERFE Posts: 2,133 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Thanks fuzz, I would not have seen that if not for your post, not much I need from that site and OMG the prices normally but did order a new sheet for DD bed and some socks for baby for £5.20 so not too bad a price.
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