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Polesalot's Climb to Debt Freedom

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  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    I've now been able to transfer money between accounts at NotBest so at least I know everything is covered in the household account now. I've also transferred money into the food, petrol and holiday accounts. Just need to keep a tight reign on the miniscule amount that's left in the current account now :rotfl:Theoretically should not need to spend anything till Wednesday when I'll buy cakes to take into work - I won't be as extravagant as in previous years.......
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    Yes that's exactly it. I'd known there'd been a problem since Wednesday but thought that it would have been sorted out by Friday when my salary was due to go in. Seems to be OK now. The good thing is even though credits weren't going in, debits weren't going out either. :D:D
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    I had a lovely day earlier, got some lovely presents and spent it with my lovely family. We had lots of laughs, lovely food and drink and a really good day all round.

    I couldn't help feeling a bit sad though - is that what 40 does to you? I don't feel 40 and have been told I don't look it but does it suddenly start making you evaluate everything? I have a feeling the underlying reason is more down to the fact that I'm mucking about with someone I shouldn't be (for more reasons than one :cool:) and I really need to sort my life out.:think: The highs are amazing, the lows are rubbish...

    Maybe I was just tired and emotional..

    Spends yesterday was just £40.01 on petrol (already allocated from petrol account). Won't be spending any money today. Off for coffee this morning with a friend and out for a walk later with another friend - to blow away the cobwebs :) and get those happy endorphins working again :)
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • Coco114
    Coco114 Posts: 770 Forumite
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    Happy Birthday Poles (for weds) !!!! Sounds like you had a lovely time :)

    What is it they say ? You are as young as the man you feel ......;)

    Enjoy your walk

    Coco x
    The final chapter - £4893 to go out of £30K
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    polesalot wrote: »
    I had a lovely day earlier, got some lovely presents and spent it with my lovely family. We had lots of laughs, lovely food and drink and a really good day all round.

    :T:T:T

    polesalot wrote: »
    I couldn't help feeling a bit sad though - is that what 40 does to you? I don't feel 40 and have been told I don't look it but does it suddenly start making you evaluate everything?

    Cripes, I hope not... I've had those moments at 15, 21, 28 and 35 so far, a major 40 one would just be too much!


    Have a lovely walk and maybe once the cobwebs are blown things will be clearer again :)


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    polesalot wrote: »
    I had a lovely day earlier, got some lovely presents and spent it with my lovely family. We had lots of laughs, lovely food and drink and a really good day all round.

    What more could you ask for?
    polesalot wrote: »
    I couldn't help feeling a bit sad though - is that what 40 does to you?

    What? Makes you have a good time with family?
    polesalot wrote: »
    I don't feel 40 and have been told I don't look it

    Well being literal - you aren't until wednesday... ;)
    polesalot wrote: »
    but does it suddenly start making you evaluate everything?

    Of course. But that is a good thing if done right.
    polesalot wrote: »
    I have a feeling the underlying reason is more down to the fact that I'm mucking about with someone I shouldn't be (for more reasons than one :cool:)

    Mucking about with them for more reasons than one?

    Or more reasons than one that you shouldn't be?

    And now, the $64,000 question: Why are you?
    polesalot wrote: »
    and I really need to sort my life out.:think: The highs are amazing, the lows are rubbish...

    :T for the highs, :grouphug: for the lows.
    polesalot wrote: »
    Maybe I was just tired and emotional..

    So you couldn't bury it quickly enough?
    polesalot wrote: »
    Spends yesterday was just £40.01 on petrol

    Tut! You need to do some trigger practise... ;)
    polesalot wrote: »
    (already allocated from petrol account). Won't be spending any money today. Off for coffee this morning with a friend and out for a walk later with another friend - to blow away the cobwebs :) and get those happy endorphins working again :)

    I hope it worked.
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  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    Or more reasons than one that you shouldn't be?

    Yes this one :o
    And now, the $64,000 question: Why are you?


    It seemed like a good idea at the time :cool:
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    Coco114 wrote: »
    :j
    Happy Birthday Poles (for weds) !!!! Sounds like you had a lovely time :)

    What is it they say ? You are as young as the man you feel ......;)

    Enjoy your walk

    Coco x

    Thanks....that will make me about er....23 :o on Wednesday then.....:o:o:o
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker PPI Party Pooper Debt-free and Proud!
    :T:T:T




    Cripes, I hope not... I've had those moments at 15, 21, 28 and 35 so far, a major 40 one would just be too much!


    Have a lovely walk and maybe once the cobwebs are blown things will be clearer again :)


    Rosa xx

    Thanks...everything feels much better today...amazing what a good natter and a long walk with friends can do.
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
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