Ladies & Gentlemen, please fasten your seatbelts ...

benbenandme

They did look a bit confused that I earn so little but have no debts other than my mortgage :rotfl:

chops22

From past things you have said about your ex, I am really shocked that he had a decent job, always sounded a bit of a dim wit.

He is certainly a nasty man to have used you bank account, low does not come into it.

benbenandme

He is a dim wit Chops Bit he is a charmer and a good looking guy and unfortuantely that gets you a long way in this world :cool:

I fact, I'll let you in on a little secret ... when my manager (a gay guy) employed him he told me he'd only employed him cos he was fit, and then we had a £10 bet as to who would get him into bed first :eek: .... god do I wish I'd lost that bet now :rotfl: :rotfl:

chops22

LOL, I bet you do!! Smarmy chancer!!

I hope you still manage to enjoy you summer holidays desite all this, hopefully he will get the shock of his life if there is any justice out there xx

hypno06

Hi, as I said earlier, you will come through this with your reputation intact and your head held high, of that I am very sure - just have to get through the crappy bit first which is no fun, but you know the facts as far as you are concerned and that is what will keep you going x

pennywisepoundstupid

Benben i'm a lurker on your thread, but had to post and say i think your coping amazingly and i can't believe that your ex has done that to you, what a F***ing ars£h*l£, excuse the language, i'm sure you will be cleared and the numpty will get what he deserves.

Its not just what he's done to you, but what he has done to his son, so sorry.

benbenandme

Thankyou both, I agree it is appalling what he has done, especially to ds, but he wouldn't care about what he's done to me, he's never apologoised for anything else he's ever done to me so am sure he's not about to start now :cool:

Smart_Mart

Good grief, I had no idea it was this bad, BB. Like many others on here, I'd had a stab at wondering what it was that was happening (human nature, sorry...:( ) but couldn't have guessed at this.

Good luck for the next few weeks and months.... (((((((((hug))))))))

benbenandme

Sorry for my grumpy mood yesterday, hopefully normal service will be resumed today

so ds woke me up at 5.30 to tell me its his birthday :eek: Can't believe its only 7am, feels much later than that already ...

He's now happily playing with new toys while I have 5 minutes on here before I go on a mad tidy up before family come round

Tigz thankyou so much, you really shouldn't have sent him that but it was very kind of you

Kittikins

Happy Birthday Benben, sure you and Mummy will have a lovely day xx

BB - I'm another who is shocked to the core at the evil behaviour of your ex, you are coping admirably (I'm sure you'll just say like all us single parents do, thinking hey I have to cope, no choice), but keep your head up high and your spirits up.


(((((hugs))))