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Message to Niddy, Trolls are you Ard Enough

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handyman123_2
handyman123_2 Posts: 2,029 Forumite
edited 6 July 2010 at 12:08AM in Debt-free wannabe
Hi to all on the DFW board, My name is Handyman and I am normally found in the evenings writing silly stories about my life on Notice to New comers. The news Niddy has left the forum has come as a blow to me personally. So I am posting this as a thread. If anyone feels Handy has gone to far, then by all means report me. It won't kill the legacy that Never-In-Doubt has left us. Knowledge is power.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post.


Good Evening All my NTN mates, I feel like I’m writing an obituary. I saw the news’s a couple of hours ago, and now I feel like I am mourning the loss of an old friend.

I first found Niddys thread just before Christmas last year, when I was at my lowest point for years. As Niddy said this is a forum for Money Saving and Debt, not for debating the finer points of spirituality.

After reading unenforceability, I felt like I had had a revelation. I went upstairs and woke Mrs H and as I explained to her that although there were no guarantee’s, after what I had just learned I was certain things would be all right.

I followed Niddy’s Unenforceability checker and in March I had my first success. I then stopped lurking and registered on MSE. Numpty was my first reply, cheers mate.

The rest as they say is history. Last month I had a conclusion, my DCA wrote to me saying they deemed my account unenforceable.

I have been silent on a lot of the details, lets just put it this way it was a lot more than I admitted to in my posts.

Now I have sometimes stalked the site without logging in just to see what was happening, I could not believe Niddy’s patience with some of the posters, sometimes I would yell at the screen Don’t you get it.

But Niddy would keep on until they got the help they needed. I have often thought that this site plus whatever his job is must put an intolerable strain on his mental wellbeing, not to mention his relationship’s.

Niddy I still hope that somehow we meet up for that beer I promised. I hope after a well earned break you come back as Niddy MK2. I know your religious beliefs or lack of them. (Joke Mate). But if there is such a thing as reincarnation of ghosts, come back and haunt these B’stards.

Until then I hope someone takes on you mantle. This is old Handy’s first experience of an on line community, until now I have laughed at Cyber Bullying. I’m old school, Sticks and Stones May Break my Bones, But Names Will Never Hurt Me. I believe in it now. I believe about the email link in the pm directing Niddy to the semi legal threat, by one of the banks. I also think that some of the abuse Niddy has endured is purely from K**b Heads with nothing better to do, But I sincerely believe some of the abuse must have come from Banks and DCA’s .

Erme I don’t work for the F.B.I. but I have read the Art of War, pick off one opponent at a time. Niddy you must have cost the DCA’s Millions, as well as rescued the life’s of hundreds if not thousands who were sold the promise of buy now pay later, as an excuse for some banker’s 6 figure bonus.

So I leave a message to the Trolls, You may have got the Best of us, now you have to get the rest of us.

Handy is painting a Target on his Back. (it used to be an RAF Roundel)

Trolls, If ya Think Ya Ard Enough, Come On Lets Ave Sum.
Show us what ya Got!!

Handy’s here and he aint shiftin.
Mother Nature Don't Draw Straight lines, We are Broken Moulds in Life's Grand Design, We look a Mess but we're doing fine,
Life Long Card Carrying Member Of the Union of Different Kinds.
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  • carol01
    carol01 Posts: 568 Forumite
    here!! here!! handy they take you down they can take me as well :D
    i am staying too and i aint shiftin
    always smile no matter how broken you are.
  • Is Niddy the guy that helped MouseAnn?
    Cos if he has gone that 's a bit of a disaster?
    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • carol01
    carol01 Posts: 568 Forumite
    Is Niddy the guy that helped MouseAnn?
    Cos if he has gone that 's a bit of a disaster?
    xxx
    yes it is him :(
    always smile no matter how broken you are.
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I'm on the front line mate:beer:
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    I'm absolutely gutted, this place is really going downhill and before long there wont be anyone left with the knowledge to help the newbies. God help us all when that happens.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • carol01 wrote: »
    yes it is him :(

    Oh crap. that is bad.

    I so sorry that happened.

    He was bloody marvellous.

    xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    If you are reading this Niddy ....I guess we all feel like we need a break from MSE every once in a while & I hope you enjoy the rest...personally I mostly only lurk these days & dip in & out of threads every now & then....quite often your good humoured , sensible posts are scattered through like that nice headmaster keeping us kids in check :D:D

    Seriously you have been there for many of us regulars actually & I want to thank you for that.......& I hope Niddy Mk2 will be along soon;).

    Take care,

    Angiexx
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    What??! Niddy's left?? Omg!! Did he announce? Anyone got a link i'm on my phone atm :(
  • Berry._2
    Berry._2 Posts: 6 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    What??! Niddy's left?? Omg!! Did he announce? Anyone got a link i'm on my phone atm :(

    Yes. He said he was leaving because of the trolls and the PMs etc he was getting.
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