Splitting up two weeks before the wedding...

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Slinky wrote: »

Many years ago I had a friend who married a man when she knew she was doing the wrong thing, purely because it had all be organised and she didn't have the courage to call it off, she'd met somebody else at work and started to have doubts about her fiance being the right man for her. Sure enough it went wrong within months and they ended up having a very bitter divorce.

You'll only get the chance to have a first wedding once. Surely nobody can want to enter into marriage without being certain you're going to give it your best shot and that your other half is going to be too. Getting married and hoping for the best isn't the basis for a long road ahead together.

EXactly what happened to me, and good advice.

worriedmumm2010 wrote: »

Its like reading my story here. Today is monday 28th of june and i am due to marry on 10th july. Today my fiance calls it all off and breaks up with me. I have a 2 year old daughter with him and whilst we have had problems we have always worked through it and come out stronger.
i havent told my mum or anyone yet. they are payin for the wedding and are going to loose all the money. I am so upset and embarrssed and i just feel like i actually want to die right now. If it wasnt for my daughter i dont know what i would do. I hve a mortgage and i work but how the hell am i going to cope on my own and how the hell can i forgive him and be civil for our daughter when i feel like he has ruined my life.
Im sending positive thoughts ur way and want u 2 know u r not alone.

Hugs honey. Tell your folks. Consider having a party just for your family if they paid for it all and can't get their money back.
Tell your folks, its good advice, you need them.

If I can manage working as a single parent of a tiny, so can you.