Advice needed please

trinity29

oh and finally you wont be seeing me being prosecuted dearies as i will be doing things the right way

iamana1ias

trinity29 wrote: »

I hope you all enjoy your pimms and lemonade because the way the world is going you may all well be in my situation one day, now wont that be hilarious when your husbands all lose their jobs, or even better when they realise how you get your kicks they all run off with their secretaries now i think ill drink to that *raises a glass of lambrini* lmao thats all i can afford at the moment
Oh and just so you all know im studying psychology with the open university, thanks for your responses they will come in very useful

Since when could you get anywhere with the OU if you can't even use full stops?!

AnxiousMum

trinity29 wrote: »

I hope you all enjoy your pimms and lemonade because the way the world is going you may all well be in my situation one day, now wont that be hilarious when your husbands all lose their jobs, or even better when they realise how you get your kicks they all run off with their secretaries now i think ill drink to that *raises a glass of lambrini* lmao thats all i can afford at the moment
Oh and just so you all know im studying psychology with the open university, thanks for your responses they will come in very useful

Have just dug my hands out.....while raising the glass of pimms, thought I'd just come in and make a brief comment.....

My husband has chosen a career that is pretty much secure till the day he retires. After all, someone has to teach our yougsters proper punctuation don't they? I have also always worked full time, so we would at least have my income to fall back on, as well as the financial planning I did prior to having children. Fortunately for my husband, he has no need for a 'secretary'......he has me Good luck in your psychology course, you may come to understand in a few years time why people reacted to your thread in the way they have - or....were you trolling for research as you insinuate in your last comment? Enjoy the Lambrini lurve, and don't get too pished now eh?

Breast_Cancer_Survivor

trinity29 wrote: »

oh and finally you wont be seeing me being prosecuted dearies as i will be doing things the right way

I was only trying to warn you what might happen.

I was investigated for benefit fraud when I met my bf despite the fact i'd only know him for a few months, he wasn't my partner & we didn't have any kids together.

The DWP don't care whether you live together but whether you are a couple which you claim you are & whether he supports you financially which you state he does.

trinity29

iamana1ias wrote: »

Since when could you get anywhere with the OU if you can't even use full stops?!

One more question?
Is this a site for advise, relationships or grammar????

Im totally lost now, i didn't realise i had to write things like an essay on here, i apologise.

AnxiousMum

trinity29 wrote: »

One more question?
Is this a site for advise, relationships or grammar????

Im totally lost now, i didn't realise i had to write things like an essay on here, i apologise.

As you can imagine, there are an awful lot of trolls and trollettes on here, posting threads just to have a reason to fly off the handle at people and become abusive. So when you use the grammar and punctuation you do, and then state you are in the OU, it just makes people wonder about the genuine nature of the post.....or not!

iamana1ias

trinity29 wrote: »

One more question?
Is this a site for advise, relationships or grammar????

Im totally lost now, i didn't realise i had to write things like an essay on here, i apologise.

You don't add any credibility to your story if you write like a 7 year old

sp1987

trinity29 wrote: »

One more question?
Is this a site for advise, relationships or grammar????

Im totally lost now, i didn't realise i had to write things like an essay on here, i apologise.

The site is for moneysaving. To be honest the people commenting on your possible benefit fraud will have saved you money on paying any overpayments back and on any legal advice you might have to pay for.
That's quite a good result considering how rude you were to them.

trinity29

Breast_Cancer_Survivor wrote: »

I was only trying to warn you what might happen.

I was investigated for benefit fraud when I met my bf despite the fact i'd only know him for a few months, he wasn't my partner & we didn't have any kids together.

The DWP don't care whether you live together but whether you are a couple which you claim you are & whether he supports you financially which you state he does.

Where do i state he supports me financially???

He pays C.S.A so he does his bit for the kids (that was when we wasnt together and he was working). I will be off down to the jobcentre in the morning and get some real advice.


As for the lambrini....................i dont drink!!!
I was purely fuelling your already made up minds of me

I dont need to drink to chill out, unwind or have fun, i have a sense of humour, thank god or i'd be off to slit my wrists after our joyous discussion.

Breast_Cancer_Survivor

trinity29 wrote: »

Did i ask for relationship advice?

As i said you dont know anything about us and for your information he has provided for his children unlike most men, is that whats wrong with you two?
Not getting what you think your entitled to??

Well anyway besides these two women who i bet are sitting at home on benefits themselves or who have been hit by the stop to benefits to those who earn more than 30k a year, can anyone else advise me what the best way to go is?

Or shall we just expect our children to survive on bread and water untill their dad goes back to work again? by that time we may well have lost the roof over our head :S

I love how helpful everyone is here, especially you T, thanks x

You didn't say he had paid child support you said he has provided for his children that why I assumed he contributed financially which is what the DWP will think if you say that whilst they are interviewing you.