Advice needed please

healy

The point people are making is that you should already be living together as a family and not screwing the benefits system the way you have been.

trinity29

dx2 wrote: »

expect at least 4 weeks of bread and water until your benefits are sorted out.

thanks wasnt so hard was it? :t

DX2

trinity29 wrote: »

thanks wasnt so hard was it? :t

Of course it could be three months, infact no one can answer your specific question, we can all speculate but at the end of the day it will take as long as it takes.

dmg24

trinity29 wrote: »

You know nothing about either of us and you judge immediately??????

You seem to be the one making judgments!

trinity29 wrote: »

He is out of work because of illness, up untill recently he had his own business and probably paid more towards tax than you!

trinity29 wrote: »

Well anyway besides these two women who i bet are sitting at home on benefits themselves or who have been hit by the stop to benefits to those who earn more than 30k a year, can anyone else advise me what the best way to go is?

trinity29

healy wrote: »

The point people are making is that you should already be living together as a family and not screwing the benefits system the way you have been.

EXCUSE ME????

HOW AM I SCREWING THE SYSTEM???

WE SPLIT FOR TWO YEARS, I HAVE BEEN A SINLE PARENT AS HAS HE, SO HOW ARE WE SCREWING THE SYSTEM?

SCREWING THE SYSTEM IS WHEN YOU ARE A COUPLE LIVING TOGETHER AND CLAIMING SEPARATELY OR AM I MISTAKEN?

I HAVE A BIT OF ADVISE FOR YOU ALL THAT HAVE COMMENTED....................... GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES AND GO DO SOMETHING USEFULL WITH YOUR EVENING :mad:

OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN TO SIT AND CRITISISE SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, I COULD QUITE EASILY SCREW THE SYSTEM AS YOU PUT IT BUT IM CHOOSING TO DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY AND BECAUSE OF THAT IM A BAD PERSON????? I THINK YOU ALL NEED TO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

trinity29

dmg24 wrote: »

You seem to be the one making judgments!

Its called defending myself sweetheart am i not allowed to do that either???? jesus christ i ask for a bit of advice, get accused of all sorts and then get collared for defending myself???? lol ridiculous

healy

trinity29 wrote: »

EXCUSE ME????

HOW AM I SCREWING THE SYSTEM???

WE SPLIT FOR TWO YEARS, I HAVE BEEN A SINLE PARENT AS HAS HE, SO HOW ARE WE SCREWING THE SYSTEM?

SCREWING THE SYSTEM IS WHEN YOU ARE A COUPLE LIVING TOGETHER AND CLAIMING SEPARATELY OR AM I MISTAKEN?

I HAVE A BIT OF ADVISE FOR YOU ALL THAT HAVE COMMENTED....................... GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES AND GO DO SOMETHING USEFULL WITH YOUR EVENING :mad:

OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN TO SIT AND CRITISISE SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, I COULD QUITE EASILY SCREW THE SYSTEM AS YOU PUT IT BUT IM CHOOSING TO DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY AND BECAUSE OF THAT IM A BAD PERSON????? I THINK YOU ALL NEED TO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

So you are saying that you have only in the last day or so become a couple, I do not believe you.

I will take your advice and go as this is a waste of my time.

dmg24

trinity29 wrote: »

Its called defending myself sweetheart am i not allowed to do that either???? jesus christ i ask for a bit of advice, get accused of all sorts and then get collared for defending myself???? lol ridiculous

You cannot criticise people for doing something, and then do it yourself. That would be hypocritical.

Did you get the information you needed?

Breast_Cancer_Survivor

trinity29 wrote: »

Hello to you all, me and my partner are moving in together soon, we have three children together but have never lived together, we are planning on doing everything legit but how d i go about doing it, i know he has to give 4 weeks notice to the council to give up his flat and i am currently on I.S/C.T.C/H.B/C.T.B/ AND C.B he is currently out of work due to illness.

I know a friend who has recently done this with her partner and three months on is still waiting for her money to be sorted out, im just concerened that if they dont sort it all we will have to live on is 47 pound a week for 5 of us :eek:
I just want to know the best way of dealing with this without not having any money to live on untill its all sorted.

Im not being funny but you say that your partner is going to be moving in with you which means you are not a single parent as you have a partner.

You might find that the DWP get suspicious & invsetigate you as at present you are falsely claiming as a single parent & therfore are commiting benefit fraud.

DX2

trinity29 wrote: »

EXCUSE ME????

HOW AM I SCREWING THE SYSTEM???

WE SPLIT FOR TWO YEARS, I HAVE BEEN A SINLE PARENT AS HAS HE, SO HOW ARE WE SCREWING THE SYSTEM?

SCREWING THE SYSTEM IS WHEN YOU ARE A COUPLE LIVING TOGETHER AND CLAIMING SEPARATELY OR AM I MISTAKEN?

I HAVE A BIT OF ADVISE FOR YOU ALL THAT HAVE COMMENTED....................... GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES AND GO DO SOMETHING USEFULL WITH YOUR EVENING :mad:

OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN TO SIT AND CRITISISE SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, I COULD QUITE EASILY SCREW THE SYSTEM AS YOU PUT IT BUT IM CHOOSING TO DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY AND BECAUSE OF THAT IM A BAD PERSON????? I THINK YOU ALL NEED TO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

Magic