Budget - tougher for DLA claimants

Oldernotwiser

summerof0763 wrote: »

you personally have no idea what it is like to suffer pain daily,you have no idea what real pain is like,and until you do experience it you cannot say you do

Many people would say that seeing someone you love in pain (and being able to do nothing to help them) is far worst than being in pain yourself.

summerof0763

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Many people would say that seeing someone you love in pain (and being able to do nothing to help them) is far worst than being in pain yourself.

well i am afraid i beg to differ.
until you personally have suffered severe pain,you cannot compare the two.belive me.you may sympathise but you cannot feel the pain

Indie_Kid

I disagree too. Having a disability is completely different to caring for someone with one.

Oldernotwiser

summerof0763 wrote: »

well i am afraid i beg to differ.
until you personally have suffered severe pain,you cannot compare the two.belive me.you may sympathise but you cannot feel the pain

I think that most people have suffered severe pain at some point, even if they are fortunate enough not to be in pain all the time.

I have no children of my own but I'm sure that many parents would take the pain on themselves if that were possible, rather than seeing their child suffer. This would also apply to other close relationships - it's not really a question of sympathy at all.

Indie_Kid

Pain is different for everyone. What for me might be minor, might be major for someone else.

Oldernotwiser

sh1305 wrote: »

Pain is different for everyone. What for me might be minor, might be major for someone else.

Oh do change the record!

summerof0763

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Oh do change the record!

again am sorry,but thats uncalled for,its right eveyone's pain threshold is different

Trialia

summerof0763 wrote: »

again am sorry,but thats uncalled for,its right eveyone's pain threshold is different

Very true.

(I may have half this thread on ignore, but the comments I'm seeing quoted really are getting up my nose - which obviously meant I was right to put certain people on ignore! )

krisskross

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Oh do change the record!

Older put her on ignore. I have.

She is just an annoying child who has no experience of anything. And amazingly childlike for someone who was supposed to have been at University living an independent life.

I do not believe a single syllable she posts.

summerof0763

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

I think that most people have suffered severe pain at some point, even if they are fortunate enough not to be in pain all the time.

I have no children of my own but I'm sure that many parents would take the pain on themselves if that were possible, rather than seeing their child suffer. This would also apply to other close relationships - it's not really a question of sympathy at all.

i dont have parents and do not wish to go there with this.
yes am a parent,yes i would take my kids pain anytime if i could.
but this is not a sore tummy or a sprained wrist,this is daily agonising pain,that no medication so far has touched my pain,and to be honest i would not wish it upon anyone,but hey ho i get my dla so why am i complaining