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  • jackieglasgow
    jackieglasgow Posts: 9,436 Forumite
    Not funny or appropriate, this man is seriously concerned for his child's welfare. Please delete your post, or I shall report it to abuse.
    mardatha wrote: »
    It's what is inside your head that matters in life - not what's outside your window :D
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  • pimento
    pimento Posts: 6,243 Forumite
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    whitewing wrote: »
    In james' defence - much as I disagree with the majority of what he wrote - my initial reading of the original post was simply that the OP was out to make trouble with the ex because of his wording and style of writing. Had he been calmer (and maybe approaching the matter calmly and insistently), he may get further forward with the authorities.

    I'll admit it read like that for me too.. "The eldest" "The youngest" "The mother" "The !!!!" Not "my" daughter, "my" ex....

    Not the way you'd normally hear someone's nearest and dearest referred to.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • Zazen999
    Zazen999 Posts: 6,183 Forumite
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    pimento wrote: »
    I'll admit it read like that for me too.. "The eldest" "The youngest" "The mother" "The !!!!" Not "my" daughter, "my" ex....

    Not the way you'd normally hear someone's nearest and dearest referred to.

    Nonsense!

    Loads of people refer to 'the eldest' or 'the youngest' and what people call their ex is dependent on the relationship and the break-up.

    I can't believe all those on here who support an over 60 year old having relations with a 15 yr old and taking a 14 yr old on holiday. A very sad state of affairs.
  • pimento
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    I don't support it. The OP just comes across as very agressive.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • Zazen999
    Zazen999 Posts: 6,183 Forumite
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    pimento wrote: »
    I don't support it. The OP just comes across as very agressive.

    Perhaps he's a little angry! After all his 14 yr old is on holiday with a 64 year old man.
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    pimento wrote: »
    I'll admit it read like that for me too.. "The eldest" "The youngest" "The mother" "The !!!!" Not "my" daughter, "my" ex....

    Not the way you'd normally hear someone's nearest and dearest referred to.

    Depends where you live - where I come from that is entirely normal.

    *shakes heaed in total disbelief*
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • ankspon
    ankspon Posts: 2,371 Forumite
    Now i'm being belittled for how i write,i am angry and did write this post angry but that in no way excuses the behaviour of this pervert.I wrote eldest,youngest etc for anonymity,thanks to all the genuine concerned replies for not going off the subject
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    David, some of us are grown ups, and we truly care.

    Unfortunately there will always be some people with no empathy, you cant legislate for that.

    Let us know, did you speak to NSPCC? What did they say ?
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • Gingham_Ribbon
    Gingham_Ribbon Posts: 31,519 Forumite
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    David, I hope your concerns are taken seriously by someone who can help. I can't remember if you said you'd tried social services?

    As for some of the idiotic replies on here, I'd like to apologise on behalf of the many genuine people on here and I know the rest of us on the thread are pretty disgusted at what appears to be brainless people having some fun at the expense of someone who is worried about his children. :(
    May all your dots fall silently to the ground.
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    edited 18 May 2010 at 9:20PM
    There are some peope who have no sense of right and wrong. A grown man of 60 having sex with a 15* year old is wrong, plain wrong and illegal. How anyone, much less a parent, can mittigate or make excuses for this is beyond me. There has to be a line for the protection of the vulnerable.

    I feel for the OP, he is a caring father made impotent by the system, and by his daughters mother's inabillity to see what is in clear sight for most right thinking people. She is failing her daughter, and that is quite rightly making the OP angry, it would make me angry, livid, in fact.

    Edited:o
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