**Thursday 13th Daily Chat** - Come and join in all you lurkers :)

littlemisschocolate

Morning everyone,

Kayleigh - good luck with the house viewing.
Pooky - if you're still feeling dizzy see a DR, as it could be a problem wiht your blood pressue or your inner ear.
Gonzo - you poor thing, it never rains but it poors!
Bunny - sending lots of hugs your way.

Mrs Invisible, cheers for the gingerbread - just what I needed!

Sorry if I've missed anyone out. Sending lots of love to you all.

Bunnyinthelights

Sad moment=

I really wish I had more love and cuddles.

Bunnyinthelights

Welcome all lurkers, really nice to 'see' you!

redsquirrel80

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Sad moment=

I really wish I had more love and cuddles.

I know this isn't quite the same but :grouphug:

gonzo127

thats for sure LMC, probably doesnt help much that i am feeling sorry for myself as on top of everything seeming to go wrong i just feel as if my wife blaims me for us not having enough money

just re-read this and realised i need to put a rant warning up

all kicked off since i had to take a 'promotion' last year (due to personal issues with my then management) which has actually made us worse off financially - £3k a year payrise but due to drop in tax credits and a massive increase in petrol (gone from working only 6 miles away to 30 miles) we have a lot less money each month for everything.

ok she hasnt come out and said it but the amount of times when we have our discussions about money that i have 'seen' the thought flash through her head about the fact i should have just stuck at my old job and made do with the fact i hated the job and certain people i worked with had screwed me over that many times i actually dreaded getting up in the morning and going into the office

i am just getting worried that its going to get to a point where she catches me on a bad day and i end up saying something about her actually getting a job herself in a less than diplomatic way

Lucifa73

littlemisschocolate wrote: »

Sorry if I've missed anyone out. Sending lots of love to you all.

Ahem...:(







:rotfl:

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Sad moment=

I really wish I had more love and cuddles.

I love ya and am sending big squashy virtual hugs right now

gonzo127

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Sad moment=

I really wish I had more love and cuddles.

ah sweetie, we all loves ya - even if you are a small brown fuzzy thing with green insides

:grouphug:

Lucifa73

gonzo127 wrote: »

thats for sure LMC, probably doesnt help much that i am feeling sorry for myself as on top of everything seeming to go wrong i just feel as if my wife blaims me for us not having enough money

just re-read this and realised i need to put a rant warning up

all kicked off since i had to take a 'promotion' last year (due to personal issues with my then management) which has actually made us worse off financially - £3k a year payrise but due to drop in tax credits and a massive increase in petrol (gone from working only 6 miles away to 30 miles) we have a lot less money each month for everything.

ok she hasnt come out and said it but the amount of times when we have our discussions about money that i have 'seen' the thought flash through her head about the fact i should have just stuck at my old job and made do with the fact i hated the job and certain people i worked with had screwed me over that many times i actually dreaded getting up in the morning and going into the office

i am just getting worried that its going to get to a point where she catches me on a bad day and i end up saying something about her actually getting a job herself in a less than diplomatic way

As she hasn't actually said anything are you making an unfair assumption? You need to tell her you feel like this or its will definitely boil over at the wrong moment and in the wrong way...

ghostmadlittlemiss

Dear God! If anyone ever thought to market the adhesive qualities of bird cack, they'd make a fortune! It's shifting, slowly but surely. Might take a few days at this rate though. *rolls eyes* Plus the car's going to need washing properly all over once I'm done. It could do with T-Cutting and waxing as well. That might have to wait until Mon though as the weather's due to get worse from here on in until the weekend's over. :mad:
Kayleigh

redsquirrel80

Lucifa73 wrote: »

As she hasn't actually said anything are you making an unfair assumption? You need to tell her you feel like this or its will definitely boil over at the wrong moment and in the wrong way...

Yep I think you need to bring it out in the open - tell her you're worried that she resents you taking this other job. I would hope that she'd rather you were happier at work, but please, ask her.