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Happy Hump Day everyone! - Wed 12th May Daily Chat thread

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  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Aww Bun, I guess you're always going to get twunty ones - don't let it get you down.
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  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    Ok, question.

    If you don't love someone anymore, is it better to stay with them and lie to stop them hurting, or leave and let them know what the truth is?
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  • dangers
    dangers Posts: 1,457 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I would say the 2nd option Elfen if it is yourself and Pint you are referring to. Have read what you have been going through and I would say you need to put your needs first.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Tell the truth.. as long as you're sure... if it's just that you have doubts, then talk about it.
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    It is....

    I just told him I don't love him and I can't be with him
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Hugs Elfen, not an easy thing to do.
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    im such a bad person, he doesnt deserve me, i dont love him and he needs someone who does
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    elfen wrote: »
    im such a bad person, he doesnt deserve me, i dont love him and he needs someone who does

    Hey, don't want to hear any putting yourself down - if you're not in love with him you've done the right thing but you are NOT a bad person.
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    But I feel like a bad person.
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    elfen wrote: »
    im such a bad person, he doesnt deserve me, i dont love him and he needs someone who does

    Elfen, dont put yourself down! Its pointless and destructive to lie to yourself and him that you love him.

    You do whats best for you, not him. Easy to say and harder to do I know.
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

    ....one-way ticket to Portugal booked !
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