think my man is cheating what now?

Katgrit

Look at whats done here. He's sworn on his little sisters life purely because he knows you wouldn't dare think he'd lie about that. He's got mad at you. The other woman got all defensive and changed to 'oh no its a works phone' when she realised they'd been rumbled. Do NOT forget that this man cheated. Because he knows he's done wrong he's turned the tables on so this is suddenly YOUR fault. He leaves you because he's unhappy, thats affecting you differently from if you'd kicked him out for being lying cheating deceitful scum. Dont feel upset that he wants out of your relationship that wasn't working - remember instead that YOU WANTED TO LEAVE HIM for cheating. He's wants to look nice by offering to pay his half of the bills so suddenly he's the good guy. NO, he is sly and coniving in whats he's done - he's being very manipulative to make you feel like its your fault. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT!! Sly sly man - you are better off shut of him.