MSE Parents Club Part 12

Krystaltips

SugarSpun wrote: »

My baby appears to be able to work a zip, witness the contents of my handbag strewn across the floor :eek:

Yeah Caitlyn can do that too... I thought I had left it open but didn't realise... Then I figured I couldn't be leaving it open that often!

Jakesmummy wrote: »

Evening everyone,

well the car is booked in for wednesday, excess was £60 so not as bad as the £100 i was expecting! the shop next door has it on cctv, should really ring police back and tell them but not sure if they'd even bother?

I would ring them and pass the details on... They probably won't do anything about it but at least you'll have given them the information... Glad it's not costing you too much...

Caz, have a ((hug)) from me. I don't know what I would do in your position so I can't advise you, but I hope you can be happy soon xx

So what's been happening Dawn? What's new with you?

Becles, could you just take him on a walk round the streets and aviod the field for a couple of days? Hope he doesn't hold it against you

dt1_2

Krystaltips wrote: »

So what's been happening Dawn? What's new with you?

Thank you for asking;) lots of help put in place for me and Oz (feel very lucky to recieve this as I know a lot of people don't get the support they need) Homestart twice a week for help with oz. Mental health team have been great and will soon have settled on new meds:).
Oscar is picking things up slowly still only 1 word but does make himself understood when he is not happy.:rotfl:.

I do lurk, I find it very helpful to see what other babies are doing so I can monitor Oscar a bit more myself.
Thank you Weezl for the speech info has been very helpful:A.
Can you tell I am feeling more stable, can,t shut me up once I start:o.

MadDogWoman_2

Hello,

Hugs to everyone.

Welcome and congratulations CAFCGirl and anyone else I've missed.

DT1 - glad you are getting the support you need.

Beccles - give Jack a pat from me, I had a cat in a lampshade for 8 weeks last year she wasn't a happy.

Had a busy busy weekend, with swimming, a party, church and shopping. Been invited to another party next Sunday! All because one of the readers is being ordained next Sunday and is leaving our Church to be a Curate in the church in the next town!

I had a battle with Katie at swimming she didn't want me to hold her at all! So I had to keep catching her as she started to sink.

Katie is currently sat on DH's knee going through the toy pages of Argos, she has decided that she needs knee pads "pretty please, mummy!"

Weezl - Katie was quite slow with her speech but it's getting there, she was pretty much silent until about 6 months ago. She struggles with some sounds (V and F mainly), but we're working on it, she says the word we just repeat it back the way it should sound and just occasionally get her to make the sound without a word IYKWIM.

BrunoM

Hi Caz,

I certainly don't expect you to act on other people's opinions, and only you know the absolute full picture and how you feel etc. You did ask for opinions though, and I agree with Beenie.

As an absolute bare minimum the texting should be utterly out of the question, and it's just a strong indication of his bad faith.

I hope you can work this out somehow

cazscoob wrote: »

morning, had a bad night sat on the phone to him and got all the answers i wanted and now i feel sick, have had 2 hours sleep as it is all tumbling through my head:( i promised the kids a day at the beach but all i wanna do is curl up and give up. Everything has been a lie since my baby girl was born, just wish i had been brave enough then to do what i have just done. the worst thing is i still love him, but i have so much hate and anger in me and i know i cannot be stupid again and make the same mistake again.

cazscoob wrote: »

BM hope your ok and if you wanna chat pm me xx

Well as of yesterday i am a single woman, i found out that the !!!!!! he started texting last year after erin was born was told a lot of lies her and they have been seeing each other for 16 months. when he disappered in feb he paid for her to come up and they stayed in edinburgh. i told him to leave and he tried to apologise, i couldnt take it so picked up a hammer and smashed his car up. i have never felt like that in my life and she then told me she had a miscarrige with his baby. he states this is lies but i cant believe a word he says. i feel strangely calm and strong, im worried im going crazy lol!!! i dont really know what to do next? i will not take him back and if i say i will please bann me from talking on here!
i really have missed you all!!! can i get links for wedding pics xxx

Sarah_Joanne

gill_81uk wrote: »

That was my plan today but I had to leave a message. I asked him to phone me but he emailed instead. His email ends as tho he wants no more contact about it, I guess as he's due to retire soon he doesnt want the bother.

Maybe call again and leave a messgae if no reply, or email back and ask for contact details of the new person so you can confirm details.

BeenieCat wrote: »

Caz he's been taking the p!ss out of you since you were pregnant with your baby he KNOWS you still love him that's why he's taking advantage of that. I can see why you're letting him stay there but OMG i can't actually believe he's still texting her while he's there. I think you're just going to get more and more hurt he obviously has no respect for you at all, and you are prolonging your pain by letting him stay there. Get rid you are worth 10000000000000000000000 of him and the slapper who has the audacity to text you after she's played a part in turning your life and kids lives upside down. :mad::mad::mad:
Of course he does. He is talking out of his lying cheating arse. He feels bad cos he got caught and realises the new bint isn't a patch on you. But it doesn't mean he won't continue to have his cake and eat it, AND then spit it out.

Ditto what Beenie said. I don't mean to be blunt but I fail to see how he can possibly respect and love you to do that to you at all, never mind for such a long time You deserve so, so much better than he can give you. You are a fabulous person and you deserve (and WILL find) someone to treat you like a queen, but you can only find them once you get rid of him. ((((hugs))))

hammyhunter

Fitzio wrote: »

Was thinking about the early risers and wondering where Hammy is (H was up around 6.30am and I was telling DH that it's nothing compared to some!). Not sure if it's just me getting confused, but seems like a few days since she posted. Might just be me getting mixed up though.

Fitzio Thank you for noticing.:A. I have been lurking. I feel as if I do nothing but moan and hate to be seen like that . To be honest, things are really tough with D at the moment. This heat has really exacerbated (sp?) his eczema and the poor mite is barely sleeping *sigh*. It is not helped as he now pulls himself to standing in his cot but doesn't know how to get back down so he starts crying - it is really tiring but mega cute to go and find him standing up in the cot holding his arms out .


I am getting really worked up as his apparantly urgent referal to the paediatrican for his allergies and eczema is nowhere to be seen and it has been 3 weeks now - I know 3 weeks is not long in the grand scheme of things but my little boy is suffering and I want it to stop. NOW. Anyway, enough of my moaning I hope Holly and her sleep gets back to normal for you

Evansangel wrote: »

Just got Lily a doctors appointment, its on Thursday.

Her Eczama has got so red and she's learnt how to scratch it now

:grouphug: Big hugs EA, I hope you get somewhere on Thursday. Make sure you keep Lily's nails short and/or keep her in scratch mitts


Sorry about your car JM. It's terrible that people can do such mindless vandalism

Hi DT1 and cafcgirl :hello:

Hugs Caz, I personally think texts are totally unacceptable but I am not in your shoes. If you need anything, give us a shout :grouphug:

Sarah_Joanne

Heaton Park Manchester Meet

7th July

Please put your name below if you are attending

Boo & Isla

Gill & Thomas
jillie & Kian
searchie & jayden...
3 & V
Glam and Jack (hopefully )
Sarah & Alfie
Gymfiend & Guy (so long as they have no housey things to do)

aless02

hammy, have you lit a fire under your GP? Or can they phone the hospital (or whoever) to expedite things? I wonder, honestly, if taking him into A&E would get something accomplished... (not an expert here) Poor David, I wish I could help him.

workinmummy

Awwh Hammy, poor you and poor D.

My vibes are obviously rubbish and do not work.

Moan, moan and moan a bit more, we don't like it when people go missing, do we? Beenie? Caz? BM?

Much needed hugs being sent in your direction.

Just jumped on to check on Caz, now i'm off to go see to my little monkey, who does not want to sleep also.

JAM1376

Heaton Park Manchester Meet


7th July

Please put your name below if you are attending

Boo & Isla

Gill & Thomas
jillie & Kian
searchie & jayden...
3 & V
Glam and Jack (hopefully )
Sarah & Alfie
Gymfiend & Guy (so long as they have no housey things to do)
JAM and Charlotte