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MSE Parents Club Part 12

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  • cazscoob
    cazscoob Posts: 4,990 Forumite
    Happy birthday Sami hope you have a lovely day :D
    What's for you won't go past you
  • Becles
    Becles Posts: 13,184 Forumite
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    redmel1621 wrote: »
    Thanks Becles...I take you got married there:)

    She has picked this venue and package - Anvil Hall - it looks lovely and very reasonably priced imo:)

    It does look nice. We didn't look in there - just saw it from the outside when I walked past!

    We got married in the Original Blacksmith Forge workshop. It was so romantic thinking of all the countless runaway couples that must have married in that spot over the years.

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    Traditionally they put the bride and grooms hands together and hit the anvil with the hammer. It's to signifiy that like metal marriage has a tough bond and it's difficult to be broken. As we had the boys, the minister put the boys hands inbetween our hands and we were "bonded" as a family. That was a lovely bit as I wasn't expecting that to happen :cool:

    Arranged everything else myself rather than use one of the planning services as it worked out a bit cheaper and I got exactly what I wanted.

    Pleased you are ok caz. If there is anything we can do to help, you know where we are.

    Happy birthday Sami - hope you have a lovely day xx

    Charlotte loves sand and water. She's got a sandpit in the garden and a paddling pool and she's spent all week wandering round in a swimming costume just generally slopping about :D

    Off to work this morning, then match this afternoon. Have a good day all xx
    Here I go again on my own....
  • Somnium wrote: »
    Dk - would love to meet up and go to wisley as I've never been <img x[="" quote]="">

    Brilliant - how does next tuesday afternoon suit you?
  • Sarah_Joanne
    Sarah_Joanne Posts: 3,089 Forumite
    Aww Caz, don't know what to say :( Such a rubbish situation. Hope you can get to the beach and the kids can put a smile on your face :)
  • got-it-spend-it
    got-it-spend-it Posts: 5,016 Forumite
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    Hugs Caz, I'm sorry to hear that you've had a rough night. Please stay strong, you've come through so much already.

    Hammy- sorry to hear you and D had a bad night. I hope you both manage a good nap today.

    Busy day at chez GISI- need to deliver some NCT newsletters, bake carrot cakes and cheese scones, take H swimming, watch football, go to Slimming World and pick up some donated cookies for tomorrow's BF Awareness Week picnic. Phew, I feel tired just thinking about it!
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    (((Hugs))) Caz. It must be so hard for you and after the time you've been together it's normal to love and hate him at the same time! But you're a very strong lady and you've got to do whats right for you and the children.
    What is he being like?, is he sorry?, regretting being a to55er?
    You know we're all here for you and we've all got open pm boxes.

    Course you can still come!!!!!!!! You can borrow my baby if you like :D

    But i'll want to take him home with me. :o

    I'm going to stay here and try and finish my front garden. I need to get some pretty plants, then it's done. Just the horrendous back garden to tackle then. :(

    Huge happy birthday to young Sami. Enjoy the cake.
    :beer:
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Hapy birthday Sammy Jo!!
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    Sugar - have you had an email from secret sales? I've got one saying my stuff has finally been dispatched. I emailed them while u were away and the said Hotmilk had som issue that was delaying them.

    Yes, yesterday - finally! I was just wondering where my lovely bras were.
    Hmmm, I don't think your sleep vibes worked :(

    I hope you and Miss Molly feel better this morning

    I'm sorry lovely, can you sleep today at all?

    Molly produced a code brown this morning that must have wiped out everything in its path. Hopefully it's taken her nasty tummy germs with it.
    cazscoob wrote: »
    morning, had a bad night sat on the phone to him and got all the answers i wanted and now i feel sick, have had 2 hours sleep as it is all tumbling through my head:( i promised the kids a day at the beach but all i wanna do is curl up and give up. Everything has been a lie since my baby girl was born, just wish i had been brave enough then to do what i have just done. the worst thing is i still love him, but i have so much hate and anger in me and i know i cannot be stupid again and make the same mistake again.

    Big hugs sweetie. It's horrible and it'll hurt and go on hurting, but you're doing the best you can for you and your kids.
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    Happy Birthday Sami!! (and my baby brother, who isn't really a baby anymore, he's 7 :p)

    ((hugs)) Caz, way to go with the hammer! Your very restrained, i probably would of wanted to whack him with the hammer :o
    Your a strong woman and a fab mum, so go to the beach and have fun! And look at sexy topless men :D

    Lily had a rough night, she kept waking up crying from about 2am. It woke me up but i kept falling back to sleep and DH looked after her. She wanted to wake up properly at 5:30am, so we both just got up.

    She's now asleep and i cant sleep even though im mega tired.

    Football is on today, i care not for this. But DH wants to watch it, so i will prob either make a cake or be on here. Depends if i can be bothered to walk the 30 second journey from my house to One Stop to get Eggs :p
  • Sarah_Joanne
    Sarah_Joanne Posts: 3,089 Forumite
    Just setting off to the sling meet now but had to pop on first to say my baby just kinda crawled :eek: :eek: :eek: I'd put him down on his tummy in his cot while I dried my hair, came back 2 mins later and he was on his back so I put him on the bed on his front so he could roll over for DH to see and instead of rolling he was propelling himself forward with his feet!!!! Moved a good 8 inches!

    Right leaving now, catch you all later x
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    3 - you will be missed this morning :( who is Chris gonna drag down the slide with you and Glam not here? :p
    Thanks for the birthday wishes :kisses3: to all!

    Caz - Try to get out and you'll feel better for it, it will take a time before you lose that love and anger and be able to move on.n He is a pig but you are wonderful and you have your beautiful babies to keep you company and give you lots of love until you feel 'normal' again.

    Right off to get de-stinkyfied and meet the lovely girls - Mel are you having pains again?
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
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