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Learning to live my dreams not trample on them

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Well found a bank statement that goes up to the 24 Dec which looks reasonable - so hopefully bank account still fine even tho I've had no access for about 2 weeks. It's my cashback card I am worried about... just checked - its been paid something - perhaps not enough to clear December's balance but enough to keep my record clean! Really need my pin sentry device to come!

    Waiting for about 5 parcels at the mo - wouldn't mind but slow has been cleared here for a while!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,506 Forumite
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    Hope you are feeling better - these streaming colds going about are awful. I had it over New Year - started on 28th December and only just about feel like myself again. DH has had it too and it's hit him much harder than me - he's actually agreed to go to doc tomorrow - unheard of. I'm So my sympathies are with you - it's good you get the chance to work from home. Take care.

    Milann
    January spends - £587.58
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,506 Forumite
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    Hope you are ok SH. Get Well soon vibes coming your way.

    Milann
    January spends - £587.58
  • Get well soon SavingH

    xxx
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • Yargo1
    Yargo1 Posts: 1,047 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    How you feeling today SavingH? better i hope. Everyone i know is ill at moment with colds etc..
    DEBT FREE - MARCH 2012 - NOW JUST THE MORTGAGE!
    MFW 2012 No.148:£1600 / £450.00
    Mortgage - 102,57.16
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Thanks milann, cmd and yargo - I am afraid I am still ill and now off work. Sinusitus - and temp of nearly 100 / 38. So feeling sorry for myself

    Pin sentry has now arrived so at least have bank accounts back in order
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • tirlittan
    tirlittan Posts: 3,397 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    poorly you...hope you get better soon!
    DEBT FREE OCTOBER 2012!
    Proud to have dealt with my debts!
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    hi Tirl - hope you are okay

    Feeling a bit better today.

    Managed to get back on top of money a bit this afternoon. Have gone thro the budget planner and renamed 3 savings pots online - 1 for gym and holidays, 1 for gifts and 1 for transport....

    So hopefully rather than trying to pay each major bill as it comes up - planning to save around £500 pcm towards annual bills - will try and pay £800 pcm off debt and then try and live within our means beyond that...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    OH and I have also agree £10 each a week "free spend" - and that this doesn't have to cover work lunches or clothes... could be fun!

    We've also allowed a bit more for eating out and taking time out with the kids

    Trying to create a budget we can actually live with and that doesn't feel like a chore. Rather than always feeling guilty about the grocery spend - I've put it in for a higher amount... Lets hope this approach works!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Was going to try and see if I was up to doing some work from home today - but it took me half an hour to hoover the lounge (in prep) as kept having to rest and felt really breathless! So I think my body is still unhappy and ill! I weighed myself today - and appear to have lost 6lb in a week which is about the only positive I can find at the mo!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
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