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Learning to live my dreams not trample on them

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  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,502 Forumite
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    You will get straight - a few more months in the grand scheme of things isn't too bad. Think back to those long hours when you hardly saw your family - it has to be worth a little longer to straighten the debts rather than wear yourself out.

    You have found a new job - got renewed plans and refound yourself and family. You will get back on track :)

    Job sounds promising.

    When is dd's birthday party - bet she'll love it.

    Take care and enjoy the job

    Milann
    January spends - £587.58
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
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    Thanks Milann - you are right - it is just a bit disappointing. I do have a balance transfer offer somewhere that I can use up to the 28th April... may be worth doing....

    I am finally at my real base today so that should be interesting but am in a really long meeting. I am also going to have to stop off somewhere to get change so I can park. I am dropping DD off at school first so no time to walk....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • 365days
    365days Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    I'm looking forward to the time when I can be really 'grown up' and pay my car insurance from a savings account that i've paid into monthly over the year.......that really would be a first!

    Hope today was a good day.
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  • Chrisblue1962
    Chrisblue1962 Posts: 1,203 Forumite
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    There are never enough days in my salary....:rotfl::rotfl:
    DFW'er - Lightbulb moment : 31st July 2009 - £18,499
    28th October 2019 -
    £13,505 - 27% paid off.
    Demolishing my House of Debt.. one brick at a time!! :)
    Thinking of spending???..YNAB says "NO!!!!"


  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
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    hi 365 and Chrisblue

    I can relate to both of you!

    I did get some good news today. Apparently I get paid 2 weeks in advance and 2 in arrears so first wages should be good.

    I seem to be doing okay at work so far and everyone is still really open and friendly so hopefully every thing should be okay. Was home for 6 today including picking up DD despite leaving work at 5.25pm!

    Want to try and get in earlier tomorrow if I can so can leave earlier! If I don't make it up in time - I may decide to work a slightly short day and make the time up next week!

    Hope you are all doing okay.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
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    Well was home just after 4.40pm! Really pleased about that! OH had got home early too! DS brought DD home saving me £7 even after their 50p each bribe!

    Need to be good spending wise this weekend! Having bangers, mash and beans for tea - yum!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • Chrisblue1962
    Chrisblue1962 Posts: 1,203 Forumite
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    Hi savingholmes

    On the mileage rate for business use, you may find your tax code goes down, mine just has - now paying extra £180.00 a year tax :(...
    DFW'er - Lightbulb moment : 31st July 2009 - £18,499
    28th October 2019 -
    £13,505 - 27% paid off.
    Demolishing my House of Debt.. one brick at a time!! :)
    Thinking of spending???..YNAB says "NO!!!!"


  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
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    edited 23 April 2010 at 7:05PM
    hi chris - I assumed they would just tax the extra - I know it will be taxable but they can't just tax me more than they should!

    Also found out today I have to join the pension scheme and won't get a refund. Probably a good thing... need some savings for retirement
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • gilligansyle
    gilligansyle Posts: 4,124 Forumite
    Glad its going ok and the hours seem to suit.

    your travel shouldn't affect your tax code, its just taxable so should be deducted at source.
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



    "The days pass so fast, let's try to make each one better than the last"
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
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    thanks gill - just need to cut down my fritter spend, take my lunches and things like that....

    I need to work out what I do want for my birthday and make sure it isn't going to blow the budget totally! Luckily I will have been paid a few days before but as I say finances are due to be tight until around July!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
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