I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

missknixon

Oh's nephew and his girlfriend are back together today! Why are people so fickle! Glad I didn't reprint! Got my dress back yesterday and can now breathe!

Stood and screamed at the weatherman last night when he said the weather was changing - how dare it! The ground will be soft - need sunshine all week next week!

frannyann

I had a minor Bridezilla moment over printing too, managed to print 30 Order of the Days with the word 'Buffett' instead of 'Buffet', thought I may get away with it, but mother noticed in a nano second!

missknixon

frannyann wrote: »

I had a minor Bridezilla moment over printing too, managed to print 30 Order of the Days with the word 'Buffett' instead of 'Buffet', thought I may get away with it, but mother noticed in a nano second!

It's not just me that does that one then!!

Have just sat and sulked after the OH emailed me to have a look at the weather forecast on a website he found - I have also deleted the message from my bin I was so p-d off! It says snow is forecast for next week! How dare it!:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

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Lexxi wrote: »

I specifically asked my day guests to reply by a certain date, more than 10 haven't replied at all! I need to know what they're eating because I need to know what it will cost!!

If they haven't RSVP-ed then (after checking that a possible reply didn't get lost in the post) I would assume they aren't coming & they don't get catered for - if they turn up they can go hungry! - and that'll serve em right for not having the manners to reply to an invitation!

Bride2be24

I am getting rather annoyed with OH because he says no to everything. I have just asked him if he would consider first dance lessons for the wedding and all he said was no. I asked him about something else the other day and his reply was no.....:mad: and last night he told me to stop buying things for the wedding off ebay or other websites. I explain everything is cheap and doesnt cost much be he wasnt having it, its doing my heading :rotfl::mad::mad:

floss2

Bride2be24 wrote: »

I am getting rather annoyed with OH because he says no to everything. I have just asked him if he would consider first dance lessons for the wedding and all he said was no. I asked him about something else the other day and his reply was no.....:mad: and last night he told me to stop buying things for the wedding off ebay or other websites. I explain everything is cheap and doesnt cost much be he wasnt having it, its doing my heading :rotfl::mad::mad:

Could he be worried about costs, or his job security?

Have to say, my OH wasn't that keen on dance lessons until he met the dance teacher......we planned on 2 lessons at £35 for 90 minutes and we ended up having 6 because he couldn't concentrate & remember what we were learning!

binkyboo_2

Bride2be24 wrote: »

I am getting rather annoyed with OH because he says no to everything. I have just asked him if he would consider first dance lessons for the wedding and all he said was no. I asked him about something else the other day and his reply was no.....:mad: and last night he told me to stop buying things for the wedding off ebay or other websites. I explain everything is cheap and doesnt cost much be he wasnt having it, its doing my heading :rotfl::mad::mad:

I think men don't see the little cheap things that we think make a wedding memorable as important.
I know for example my OH thinks I am mad for spending a night making cards with a message inside from us welcoming guests to our venue for the wedding so the hotel staff can put them in their rooms before they check in. This cost me nothing but time but he still thought I shouldn't have bothered. He also thinks that the sweet buffet is a waste of effort etc etc.
I know he wants to turn up get married and spend the day with the people we love and doesnt care about the place cards and the favours. Maybe your OH just feels the same and doesn't understand what the little things mean to us ladies?

Lexxi

missknixon wrote: »

Oh's nephew and his girlfriend are back together today! Why are people so fickle! Glad I didn't reprint! Got my dress back yesterday and can now breathe!

Stood and screamed at the weatherman last night when he said the weather was changing - how dare it! The ground will be soft - need sunshine all week next week!

OHs niece keeps doing the same thing, its infuriating!!
And I'm not sure where you are but I got caught in hail earlier, hopefully it's just getting it out of the way for your day

sammy_wheeler wrote: »

haha no your not a bad person! actually you are better than me! my guest list is people i know only- want to look at my wedding photos in years to come and know everyone in the photos and not think 'oh that was.. oh no who was that'
i get what you mean about the rsvps- some people are so rude!

I want to know all my guests too!! Told OH about the round table idea and he said no so drew different options of table layouts with the final one being me in another pub!

I can't leave people to starve as its his family! Got 3 more replys now, just don't want to feel like I'm stalking people, might just give them kids meals instead. Ha

missknixon

Lexxi wrote: »

I want to know all my guests too!! Told OH about the round table idea and he said no so drew different options of table layouts with the final one being me in another pub!

I can't leave people to starve as its his family! Got 3 more replys now, just don't want to feel like I'm stalking people, might just give them kids meals instead. Ha

I suggested that when he was driving me potty! Best man text last night to say that his mum wasn't coming - it's next Saturday!! She broke her knee and is having a hard time getting back on her feet and I know that she will have done everything she can to get there - I just also have his grandma with a broken hip - who might/ might not come and my auntie is not getting back from Florida until 7 that morning! That was my Bridezilla last night - other people have lives - how dare they!

Oh and I'm in Accrington where my car looked covered in snow this am!

Birdie85

Lexxi wrote: »

I want to know all my guests too!! Told OH about the round table idea and he said no so drew different options of table layouts with the final one being me in another pub!

:rotfl:

I got a bit 'zilla the other day. I told OH's brother that I hate it when he shaves his head as he's got a funny shaped noggin and he looks so much better with a bit of hair and if he does it for the wedding he's not in the photos!