MSE Pregnancy Club 18

**confuzzled**

kitkat5566 wrote: »

I worry also about my OH, whatever I suggest we need for the baby he just says 'upto you' i just feel like I have chosen everything so far! But when it comes to names... grr he just says NO to everything :mad::mad::mad:

Ooooo if you weren't so far away I'd say my hubby had another woman...sounds just like your OH:mad: I'm hoping it'll change once footballs over and when he can actually feel bubs moving himself:)
ever the optimist me;):D

balijay

Thanks PP and Fuzz. Yes I guess the bleeds could be around the time my period would have been due - 2 at 13 weeks and then again at 16 and 17 weeks. Not sure, I just want it to stop!!!!!!!!

PP Hope you hang on to your baby for a few more weeks yet!

BudgetBlonde

pigpen wrote: »

Oh.. F***

Having a show at 29.5 weeks isn't good is it?

I think I may need my crib sharpish!!!

I did have 3 (17, 29 and 31 weeks) with DS2 so it MIGHT be ok.. but he arrived at 32 weeks..

Now... dare I tell OH???

lol...

Now PP, this is a ridiculous amount of queue jumping you just tell that naughty baby to stay put!! Gosh, they do like drama your babies don't they? :eek: I have no idea what to suggest other than ring your triage but I know you haven't had the best care from your team ... maybe try to rest and see how the rest of the day goes? I think I have read that you can lose the plug and then another forms but this sounds like you do need to tell OH and get some support.
Sending you "stay put" vibes, hope all is OK. x

bexta

Pigpen, don't you dare go queue jumping just yet! Tell your OH, and please take it easy. Hopefully it'll be one of those that you lose and it grows back.

Just got the post, and there's one from the DVLA for OH - I will honestly kill him if he's got more points on his licence. He sold his bike about 3-4 weeks ago, got another, and was going stupidly fast on the motorway home from picking it up. It will serve him right, but won't half make a pig of things. Better get my finger out and get a UK drivers licence - at least I'm a sensible driver! Now the letter is sat there taunting me, hopefully it's something else, but with him, it probably isn't.

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

kitkat5566 wrote: »

I worry also about my OH, whatever I suggest we need for the baby he just says 'upto you' i just feel like I have chosen everything so far! But when it comes to names... grr he just says NO to everything :mad::mad::mad:

Oh sh*t Pigpen!! Better tell you OH! Hopefully your baby isn't coming this early :eek:

this is so typical of my husband too, he's not a baby shopper but has plenty of input into names !!!

Pigpen I can just imagine your oh's face if/when you tell him - keep your fett up ( as much as you can with a brood the size of yours ) good luck , hopefully he/she will decide they are comfie for at least a few more weeks - imagine if you went overdue !!!

kitkat5566

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Ooooo if you weren't so far away I'd say my hubby had another woman...sounds just like your OH:mad: I'm hoping it'll change once footballs over and when he can actually feel bubs moving himself:)
ever the optimist me;):D

Lol! Men grrrr :mad: my OH is going out on a lads night tonight to celebrate end of exams, lucky me has got to take him out and bring him back at some unearthly hour, whats the betting that I fall asleep and forget him :rotfl: the problem when you start feeling movements (and blimey do I feel them!) that when you DH puts his hand on your belly baby will remain completely still!! My OH gets really wound up with this!!! Othertimes tho he will give OH a good kicking which is good so he can feel what my poor belly and insides have to cope with!

Metranil_Vavin

kmckee999 wrote: »

Oh Metranil Vavin i can so relate to u with this one lovey :(I have been feeling down in the dumps for a few weeks now and it was causing me a few troubles at home as i was becoming a right cow...I spoke with both my MW and GP this week and they said some women can feel like this and act out of character :rotfl: my doc is amazing and said if the stress is getting too much and added pressure at work is making me worse then he will help, so rest assured it is normal for some and there are always things to do and help, join groups, except this is how we might be for a few more months and believe that it is only for a short while and it will all be worth it, iv felt betta and started to be more calmer after chatting with mw/doc

Thanks kmckee...nice to know it's not just me! I was a bit loony tunes last night!

Better today. i'm sure there'll be good days and bad ones. I think the fear of actually getting to my first scan and all being well is taking it's toll a bit too. It's now the time that I had my mc in Jan, so still holding my breath with every day/toilet trip I make

balijay - fingers crossed but I'm with all those who said it's extremely common to bleed a wee bit around period times. I've read loads about it

salesshopper

Oh Pigpen sending you stay put vibes and yr OH don't panic vibes he may need them.

On names my OH just says NO or God NO - not helpful

Confuzz I have pm ed you (I think never done it before) about business as post got a bit long and rambley

pukkamum

Am getting myself in a real state about In-laws coming on sunday (see my oh no thread) and now DH has said they talking about staying over AAARRRGGGHHHHH

hazzie123

No baby news from me,I'm still here and probably will be for the long haul.