JC's kick up the butt diary!

jasperconran

Woowoo wrote: »

Morning JC

Hope your feeling a bit happier this morning.

You must feel like banging your OH's head very hard against a brick wall. As fast as your sorting things out, he coming along behind you and undoing all your hard work, grrr.

hiya woowoo, yes it is VERY frustrating, luckily I have re-done my figures, so should be ok.

At least he is at work today:j, thats a good thing!


Hoping to go for a LSD day today, havent got much going on. DD has got yet another party to go to tonight. Crikey, she has a better social life than me :rotfl:so I have got to get a pressie for that.

I did put OH in his place AGAIN last night. Basically, our meals are pretty basic cos he doesnt like the same things as me plus he is allergic to cheese. He was complaining last nite about having the same meals and I do try to change them, and I am thinking of trying other things. So in the end I said, "look if you dont like it sunshine, then you do the flaming cooking!" he shut up then :rotfl:

have a great day all x

savingwannabe

Hello poppet,

I will be delighted to be the maid of honour. Bridesmaids have such a laugh at weddings!!!!Glad you are being assertive. I reckon he is being really devious. Have you set up a separate bank account? Can you do that today so it is his accounts he is damaging and not your credit rating? You must put yourself and DD first. ~He is still slipping up even if he is trying it may take him a while and it will be good for you not to have to worry about your hard work being undone as dear Woo Woo said.

Woo woo! what a lovely name?
:j

jasperconran

savingwannabe wrote: »

Hello poppet,

I reckon he is being really devious. Have you set up a separate bank account? Can you do that today so it is his accounts he is damaging and not your credit rating? You must put yourself and DD first. ~He is still slipping up even if he is trying it may take him a while and it will be good for you not to have to worry about your hard work being undone
:j

hiya savingwannabe,

I have thought about setting up a separate bank account as the one we have at the mo is a joint account.

I may look into that today and perhaps just set up a basic one with the co-op or something.

One good thing I suppose was that I had a convo with him last night and he said he definately wont be doing anything about the motorbike, phew! that is definately a big weight off my shoulders! There is no way that I could have coped if he had started down that road.

have a good day hun, take care of yourself. xx

savingwannabe

Bless you. Dont trust him completely yet. It will take a while for him to change his spending habits. Please set up an account. Your stress will be halved as you control your spending beautifully.

Gotta go!

:j

40somethingmum

Hi JC,

Just popped in to wish you a happy weekend;)

love

40SMXx

jasperconran

40somethingmum wrote: »

Hi JC,

Just popped in to wish you a happy weekend;)

love

40SMXx

hi 40sm,

hope you have a good weekend to. please dont work too hard and make sure you make some time for yourself.

xx

BLT_2

jasperconran wrote: »

hiya woowoo, yes it is VERY frustrating, luckily I have re-done my figures, so should be ok.

At least he is at work today:j, thats a good thing!


Hoping to go for a LSD day today, havent got much going on. DD has got yet another party to go to tonight. Crikey, she has a better social life than me :rotfl:so I have got to get a pressie for that.

I did put OH in his place AGAIN last night. Basically, our meals are pretty basic cos he doesnt like the same things as me plus he is allergic to cheese. He was complaining last nite about having the same meals and I do try to change them, and I am thinking of trying other things. So in the end I said, "look if you dont like it sunshine, then you do the flaming cooking!" he shut up then :rotfl:

have a great day all x

I know it's a bit of a neck but could you PM me the name and address of your supplier? I wouldn't ask but mine got busted by the police the other day :mad:

Don't stress too much about your daughter getting invited to more parties than you, I suspect you would hate pass the parcel anyway. However you have my condolences on the presents, it's like being asked to make an offer for a car, you never know how much is too high and how low can you go (that song is going to be in my head for the rest of the day)

I must now admit to sympathy for your OH, to be allergic to cheese is like waking up and finding that your favourite internet !!!!!! site has been taken off the air. There are some things that are basic necessities in life - cheese ranks high on these

BLT_2

savingwannabe wrote: »

Hello poppet,

I will be delighted to be the maid of honour. Bridesmaids have such a laugh at weddings!!!!Glad you are being assertive. I reckon he is being really devious. Have you set up a separate bank account? Can you do that today so it is his accounts he is damaging and not your credit rating? You must put yourself and DD first. ~He is still slipping up even if he is trying it may take him a while and it will be good for you not to have to worry about your hard work being undone as dear Woo Woo said.

Woo woo! what a lovely name?
:j

Don't get too excited about it, he's a train spotter

moo2moo

BLT wrote: »

I must now admit to sympathy for your OH, to be allergic to cheese is like waking up and finding that your favourite internet !!!!!! site has been taken off the air. There are some things that are basic necessities in life - cheese ranks high on these

:eek: Now have visions of BLT sitting on a box in front of the PC so he can see the screen watching (or should that be participating in) a v. dodgy !!!!!! site armed with a squeezy tube of Primula cheese. Bleugh.

BLT_2

moo2moo wrote: »

:eek: Now have visions of BLT sitting on a box in front of the PC so he can see the screen watching (or should that be participating in) a v. dodgy !!!!!! site armed with a squeezy tube of Primula cheese. Bleugh.

You have a very disturbing imagination Moo Moo Please leave my squeezy tube out of this :rotfl: