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i am but feel like a very old sad discarded fool at this precise moment.thanks for the kind wordsnearlyrich wrote:Good luck and remember you are a strong woman you are better off without him!£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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big hugs to you x you will get lots of good advice here and everyone is very supportive, the os board will show you how to spend your money wisely too0
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how old are the children?Mortgage free Start amount feb 2014 227000. Current amount nov 2014 217000.
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barnsleylass wrote:I don't know the chap, and he might be really honest, BUT if he is a solicitor, he knows about things like divorce, and there is just a chance that he might be making sure he is alright first, by putting his affairs in order while pulling the wool over your eyes. Get some independent advice before you do anything - that would be my advice. Sorry to sound cynical, its just that I have a few friends who have been done over by 'friendly' separations.
You have your kids to think about as well as yourself!
I hope you have got good friends and family to support you through this.
God bless!!!
I agree.
You need to know where you stand legally. He will do.
Just one step at a time. You will find you have good friends and yes they will cope with the emotional termiol (sp) you will go through.
Gather your strength from their support.£2 Coins Savings Club 2012 is £4
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17 and 15 years oldcharlie007 wrote:how old are the children?£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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I agree before you do anything - even talk to him get a bloody good solicitor - one that he doesn't know - or who does, but hates him!!0
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you will get a lot of support from here! it may feel like the end of the world right now but people will support you all they can.Mortgage free Start amount feb 2014 227000. Current amount nov 2014 217000.
Challenges 2015
No alcohol January. No spend February
Write down all spends over the whole year0 -
I'm glad. :T for your friend.Bargain_Annie wrote:yes my mate is sat right next to me showing me how to do this
And you're not old and discarded. This will be his loss and a new life for you at the end of the trauma.de do-do-do, de dar-dar-dar
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Bargain_Annie wrote:i am but feel like a very old sad discarded fool at this precise moment.thanks for the kind words
My ex walked when I was 7 months pregnant with no2 so I know how you feel, BUT it's been almost 20 years and I have had a great life and so have my children. You have to visualise a positive future and make a plan to get what you want, (maybe not tonight but soon) don't be a victim, be strong, you can do it.;)0 -
How much should he pay on a monthly basis£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
Every journey begins with a single step :wave:0
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