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Husband left me
Bargain_Annie
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My husband walked out on Saturday after 22 years of marriage - don't know what to do - can anyone help.
£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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have you spoken to him since he left?Mortgage free Start amount feb 2014 227000. Current amount nov 2014 217000.
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What help do you need. Information in relation to finances, emotions, children - please can you be more specific.All my views are just that and do not constitute legal advice in any way, shape or form.£2.00 savers club - £20.00 saved and banked (got a £2.00 pig and not counted the rest)Joined Store Cupboard Challenge]0
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Is it just to spend some time apart or has he said its all over?£2 Coins Savings Club 2012 is £4
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yes,want me to let him take his name off bank accounts,but I have said no.that was today but last night told me wanted to do right by kids. he earns 3 1/2 times what i do and wants to leave me liable for the lot. He is a solicitor though!£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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have you got a friend or family member that you can talk to tonight?de do-do-do, de dar-dar-dar
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Hi jazzyjust law
All of it please in no specific order. dont know where to begin£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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Rikki wrote::grouphug:
Is it just to spend some time apart or has he said its all over?
No hes walked and said thats it£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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I don't know the chap, and he might be really honest, BUT if he is a solicitor, he knows about things like divorce, and there is just a chance that he might be making sure he is alright first, by putting his affairs in order while pulling the wool over your eyes. Get some independent advice before you do anything - that would be my advice. Sorry to sound cynical, its just that I have a few friends who have been done over by 'friendly' separations.
You have your kids to think about as well as yourself!
I hope you have got good friends and family to support you through this.
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yes my mate is sat right next to me showing me how to do thisaurora_borealis wrote:have you got a friend or family member that you can talk to tonight?£2 coin saver club £36 Yeah!! :j :rotfl:
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If he is a solicitor he must know he can't just walk away from his responsibilities, what you need is the best family lawyer in your area, not something I would normally recommend this soon but if he is a practicing solicitor either he or one of his colleagues will have all the latest info and you need to get yourself clued up.
You won't believe me now but the best revenge is to live well and you owe it to yourself first and your children second to rebuild your life without him and make it better.
Good luck and remember you are a strong woman you are better off without him!0
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