A Trolley full of yellow . . .

REDMADCURLS

Hey CCL - hows life in your land?

blue-bells_2

Hope you're doing ok

cloud_cuckoo_land

Hey guys,

Sorry I've been so rubbish - it's all gone a bit bonkers here, no surprise really but never mind. Hubbie has decided he's going to move out, we're going to try and keep our relationship going - I know it sounds strange but we're both a little strange so it may just work!!

Problem is that we've worked out we should both be OK money wise once it's all sorted but it's getting hold of the money for a deposit and first months rent up front. Even with a no deposit scheme we're looking at 855.00 in advance.

Think we'll have to ask family but they're all skint and we owe them already.

Before anyone tells me, I know it sounds like a silly idea but we honestly can't cope with the stress of living together. Hubbie doesn't have the best relationship with my older kids, and I feel like I'm constantly in the middle of a football match as the referee!! Something was gonna give sooner or later.

Help!!!!

Cuckoo. xx

ClickSim

Hey there,

Glad you posted - was wondering if everything was OK! I rent and getting a deposit was always a big issue for me. I got a bank loan although I think the interest rate was far too high...

Good luck with the new living arrangements. I don't know what it's like to have kids but I don't live with my boyfriend and I think it saves a lot of arguments. We have differing ideas about what's 'clean'...If it makes things better than it's a great idea xx

anonymoose_3

Hi CCL
Good luck with the living arrangements, if it works for you then that's all that matters

cloud_cuckoo_land

Feeling much better today - Just had a phone call from Vanquis and they're going to reimburse ALL the charges I have ever had and promise that I won't get any more and I won't be hassled by phone anymore either!! Result!!

anonymoose_3

cloud_cuckoo_land wrote: »

Feeling much better today - Just had a phone call from Vanquis and they're going to reimburse ALL the charges I have ever had and promise that I won't get any more and I won't be hassled by phone anymore either!! Result!!

That's fantastic :j:T:j:T:j

cloud_cuckoo_land

Well it's been a while hasn't it?

Started a new job, my husbands moved out - gone through quite a bad patch but hopefully starting to get things sorted again now. Need to get back on with Money Saving so I can pay off my debts and actually start seeing some of my new wages.

Going to spend some time reading other peoples threads to see what they've been up to.

Cuckoo xx

Cialilerin

Hi again!!! Looking forward to having you back alongside us. Hope you're ok!

cloud_cuckoo_land

Cialilerin wrote: »

Hi again!!! Looking forward to having you back alongside us. Hope you're ok!

Thanks hun. xx