From Trash to Cash: the Dribble continues

dillidalli

Jo, I agree we had a family friend who despite the husband being jailed still got back together with him after being released.

Mabel - I completely agree, some people are best left to themselves. Now, do you realise how not annoying you are! I was trying to think of some more, but I think I have blocked it out tbh.

jo70mo

Hugs evenstar.
Just had a look at that womensaid site. it looks really useful. would definitely give them a call. you need to be able to talk about this. Its not just happening to them its happening to you as well.
Jo x

moneymabel

dillidalli wrote: »

Jo, I agree we had a family friend who despite the husband being jailed still got back together with him after being released.

Mabel - I completely agree, some people are best left to themselves. Now, do you realise how not annoying you are! I was trying to think of some more, but I think I have blocked it out tbh.

I can be waaaay more annoying if you want?! According to OH I am the most annoying person ever....more like him methinks :-)

Anything you want me to do towards the website hun? Let me know what you need if anything and when...slightly annoying ..see??

Just weighed myself..big mistake urrrrgghhhhh

evenstarcrafty

will come back on later
will have a chat and see what happens

thanks everyone

mambury

evenstarcrafty wrote: »

I wasnt sure about the post as it was quite personal
Thanks for all great advice
I agree mabel that to many do get away with it, all I can say is I am pleased he had the sence to leave before I went back or I could not have been held responsible

This has been going on for years with him ,he is a real waste of space, I give people more chances than they usually deserve but he had his last a long time ago

I feel that i carnt trust DD ansd she is very secretive when he is there,I know he has painted me as an interfering mother,only to diminish my influence and make her feel I was trying to run her life...so I have to break that brainwashing as well...its really hard

OH just thinks its cut and dry ....get rid and stay rid but I know she feels a bond because he is babys dad,although he has not provided for her,in my book the lad maybe her biologigal father but hes along way from being a dad

I had a similar issue with my sister but rather than violence it involved class A drugs. It sounds to me that he is controlling her. I would urge you and/or her to speak to the womens aid/refuge as soon as possible.

It took me physically separating my sister from her then parter. Only now after nearly 10 years does she see what a BIG !!!!!! he was....

Your DD will see it in time... I know you feel like you can;t trust her but the best thing you can do now is be there for her.

nolongerindenial

Dilli,

You have pm

elly68

even ,thinking of you my sister had one like that but kept having babies irony is he left for someone else when she should have got rid first day she met him .

yummy i used to give money,washing machines from my catalogues for family members i am the youngest of 9 and was always made to feel guilty about my wages compared to theirs last one was my brother who got a washing machine from catalogue made 2 payments and i paid the rest he moved in with g/f and the washing machine went to mums house .2 years later and not seen him for 3 months he text and said fridge/freezer packed in did i still have my catalogue has taken me till i'm 40 but said i dont use it anymore but i could recommend him as a customer and gave him the website address .felt proud of myself i am no longer a mug i work hard (well some days) its my money

nixinixi

I am having a much needed sort at home and realised I need a few plastic storage boxes - before I run off to Tesco or B&Q do I emember that someone on here did them or did I imagine that? If so who was it??? I really wish I I had a better memory!!

Dilli - pm'd you back!! sent you my email addy as might be esier in future as we wil be working together!!

nixinixi

Elly - well done on standing up for yourself, harder than it should be

mambury

nixinixi wrote: »

I am having a much needed sort at home and realised I need a few plastic storage boxes - before I run off to Tesco or B&Q do I emember that someone on here did them or did I imagine that? If so who was it??? I really wish I I had a better memory!!

Dilli - pm'd you back!! sent you my email addy as might be esier in future as we wil be working together!!

it was MMTWGR....

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