•○•○•○• 13/14th Weekend Chat •○•○•○•

beanielou

LOu~sorry you dident enjoy your weekend

LouiseJ

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Do you know its funny you should say that, cos ALL my friends are going to France in the Summer and I never got invited, I still don't understand why, I think its cos its a couples thing and I am not in a couple. This just further adds to my paranoia that people are friends with me out of pity.

which is why I love you lot xx you all just like me, no questions, no predecided ideas about me.

Maybe cos you do a lot with your OH they think work stuff isn't your bag??

We do get invited as couples but female friends or work friends I really dont know why things dont happen naturally.

I shall give you an example.......

I was talking to the grils that sit near me in the staff room, it was about lunch time and I thought that I was making inroads into making friends........

On the dot of lunch they all got up and decided that they were going to the local pub for their lunch and left me sitting on my own, and I mean it was OBVIOUS that I was on my own..............I bought a sandwich from the cafe and ate it at my desk:(

I used to sit in the dining room at school on my own too...............maybe its me, do I smell:rotfl:

LouiseJ

katsu wrote: »

:grouphug:

Can you invite them to go with you to these things?

What about finding somewhere else to meet people you can get on with (do as I say not as I do - I have 0 local female friends )?

I guess you have to be brave enough to handle the rejections katsu, I just dont feel strong at the moment:o

schoolrunmum

Yes you do-beautifully!!!

Right off for a Lushy bath n bed..night all xxxx

beanielou

Blimey I think thats really rude & actually very insensitive.
Are they much younger than you?
Less qualified?

sallyx

im off to bed...have headache from hell and feeeel soooooooooooo sick

Butti

LouiseJ wrote: »

I shall give you an example.......

I was talking to the grils that sit near me in the staff room, it was about lunch time and I thought that I was making inroads into making friends........

On the dot of lunch they all got up and decided that they were going to the local pub for their lunch and left me sitting on my own, and I mean it was OBVIOUS that I was on my own..............I bought a sandwich from the cafe and ate it at my desk:(

I used to sit in the dining room at school on my own too...............maybe its me, do I smell:rotfl:

Don't make light of it Lou. That's horrendous, really blatant. Have no idea what to suggest though - are they really really super-clicky?

B

beanielou

Lou~thinking further I think when we feel less strong for some reason we feel ultra sensitive about things & pick up on things we wouldent IYSWIM.
Huggles hun xxx

On another note I seem to have rather too much month left & not enough £££'s!!
On that happy note Im off.

beanielou

Sal~Hope you sleep ok.

LouiseJ

ZTD wrote: »

Oh? Why not?



And how much washing up?

No washing up at all.................they had pot noodles I think:rotfl:

I felt a bit uncomfortable at the wedding as apart from OH I didnt know anyone I was also not in the best place with myself either:o

God I sound like a right !!!!!! tonight........

think I might get myself to bed so this day will be over.