shall we have a wedding chat thread?

bubbles0169

ha ha clearing nice one lol

welcome back angel! is holiday code for wedding?

nunny you could put gift list info on that last card whether you want one or not and what you do want or it could be a mixture of that and the venue directions or accomodation nearby

nunnygirl

I've tried the accomodation thing and as there is only a tiny portion of my family coming down they are sorting their hotels etc. Everyone else lives where we are getting married so they're all going home.

We're not having a gift list. We have actually got somewhere "We have no gift list as we would prefer your presence to your presents at our wedding"

I've been thinking that I might actually just drop the third card cause it's seemingly causing me nothing but hassle with what to put on it!

joho

What about a menu or a timetable/order of service nunnygirl?

nunnygirl

Buffet, and civil ceremony so don't think I need an order of service.

Have got information on the back of the ticket about whats happening when so I think I'm just going to scrap the third card

Thanks for the help though

joho

Sorry to be a misery, but is there a thread anywhere for 'we've had a row and I might be cancelling the damn wedding cos my fiance is an !!!!' so how do I get my money back etc etc?

If not, why not?

joho

nunnygirl wrote: »

Buffet, and civil ceremony so don't think I need an order of service.

Have got information on the back of the ticket about whats happening when so I think I'm just going to scrap the third card

Thanks for the help though

How about a couple of photos of you and your fiance? Or your venue? The flowers you are having? Little details of the theme of your wedding?

sammy_wheeler

joho wrote: »

Sorry to be a misery, but is there a thread anywhere for 'we've had a row and I might be cancelling the damn wedding cos my fiance is an !!!!' so how do I get my money back etc etc?

If not, why not?

you ok joho?

shellsuit

joho wrote: »

Sorry to be a misery, but is there a thread anywhere for 'we've had a row and I might be cancelling the damn wedding cos my fiance is an !!!!' so how do I get my money back etc etc?

If not, why not?

Cos nobody has been brave enough to start one?

What's happened joho, rant and rave all you like here xx

bubbles0169

god everytime we row 'the weddings off'!! but i calm down and realise i do want to marry him...til the next b00dy row lol
theres many a time ive wrote it on here then deleted it when we made up ha!
im in a mood now 'cos he went fishing all day, the boys did nothing but wind each other up, i couldnt do anything as all the housework needed doing then it was time for work i then came home for him to say' are you facebooking or watching tv(i was doing both)cos match of the day's on' the word unappreciated comes to mind GRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
but seriously you wont get the deposit back but if youre insured you might but most policies dont cover for either of you changing your mind-fake an illness? lol

joho

Hey Sammy, shellsuit and bubbles. Yeah we had a row about him smoking. And I haven't spoken to him since Friday evening. I have no intention of speaking to him until he apologises - which makes living together a bit fraught as you probably know. But he is equally stubborn and thinks he doesn't have anything to apologise for cos he is Mr freaking perfect and never does anything wrong. I always back down after a row, cos I can't stand the atmosphere but I'm not going to this time!

We're supposed to be going on holiday soon too. The tickets arrived on Friday. I'm still gonna go - my mum is going. He can sit at home and stew for a fortnight.

Asking about getting money back was more about what could be part of this new 'had a row and it's all off' thread. We've not actually paid out much money yet, and what we have paid is non-refundable!

I know I'm overreacting and I'm sure it will all work out fine. Just doesn't seem like it at the moment. Thanks ladies - now over to more happy wedding chat, which this thread is supposed to be about!