Child Contact??

swingaloo

Because Ive seen all her demands and rantings on her facebook page and also seen copies of her rantings on emails she has sent to Simon.

Zoetoes

swingaloo wrote: »

Because Ive seen all her demands and rantings on her facebook page and also seen copies of her rantings on emails she has sent to Simon.

Sorry I meant how do you know he was paying 4 times as much as he needed to?

swingaloo

Because Ive seen a copy of an email she sent to him in which figures were mentioned and she was saying her new bloke was coming after him unless he increased it even more. However I shouldnt be sharing this on an open forum really because its Simons thread and up to him what he wants to reveal. I only came on because I had seen there wre a couple of postings which I thought were unfair.
As I said I dont know him personally and as you will see from one of my earlier postings in this thread I dont think he is doing the right thing leaving his son with this woman whatever his reasons.

simon4amiee

Funny how a dad who might I say has paid for my son throughout his life, even when I realised I had arrears I quickly got them paid. i moved towns yes. I used to have to give her money in her hand on the morning I was paid without exception, no waiting till dinner, no I had to truddle into town at 6am to get her money. Since we moved towns, she still wanted this to happen, so I refused, and said she could have when my son came, she wasnt happy and threatened me, I just had enough, so refused her the money in her hand and went through CSA, this way she would have it as soon as and I would have a record.

One of her posts which is completely random, was "Just been outsode to f**king have a go and this pr*ck of a women, and I would of smashed her fu**ing head in, if my daughter want there, thank god she takes after me and gave her fu**ing what for, I am so proud", this is her speaking of her 9-10 year old girl, and publicly posting on facebook!

I will happily PM anyone who wants full details, I dont need to defentd myself, I have been balckmailed, threatened, my wife assaulted, and all because i left this bitter woman, who for years until I made a stand, walked all over me because she knew I would do anything to see my son!

Zoetoes

simon4amiee wrote: »

Funny how a dad who might I say has paid for my son throughout his life, even when I realised I had arrears I quickly got them paid. i moved towns yes. I used to have to give her money in her hand on the morning I was paid without exception, no waiting till dinner, no I had to truddle into town at 6am to get her money. Since we moved towns, she still wanted this to happen, so I refused, and said she could have when my son came, she wasnt happy and threatened me, I just had enough, so refused her the money in her hand and went through CSA, this way she would have it as soon as and I would have a record.

One of her posts which is completely random, was "Just been outsode to f**king have a go and this pr*ck of a women, and I would of smashed her fu**ing head in, if my daughter want there, thank god she takes after me and gave her fu**ing what for, I am so proud", this is her speaking of her 9-10 year old girl, and publicly posting on facebook!

I will happily PM anyone who wants full details, I dont need to defentd myself, I have been balckmailed, threatened, my wife assaulted, and all because i left this bitter woman, who for years until I made a stand, walked all over me because she knew I would do anything to see my son!

Ok, so she sounds a bit rough.

But I still don't understand why you contacted Social Services about your son. What is the abuse he is suffering at home?

pupsicola

swingaloo wrote: »

Stepping in here in defence of Simon. First let me say that I dont know Simon personally, or his ex. However I did correspond with him some months ago when he needed some specific advice.

I have had access to his childs mothers Facebook page. (I detest Facebook really) Ive seen the photos and read her postings. Ive seen posting she has written threatening what she will do if Simon dosnt get money round to her quickly. She and her partner have threatened, bullied and made life hell for Simon and his partner. As for moving away, I really dont think he had a choice, he has a partner to protect. The threats etc are all on there, as are the things she calls her children. She is a disgusting human being.

I disagree with Simon that his son is better off with the mother, I think Simon has in the past (and is still) been far too accomodating with her considering the way she is treating his son - not to mention her other children.

I have advised Simon that I think he should forget trying to make it better at mums for his son and just go for full custody but that has to be his decision and he knows far more about the situation than any of us on here. But I cant stand back and read the posters who are saying he is the one making the child suffer. I dont think this woman should be allowed to care for any children at all.

Going by what you say about the mother, if that were my son, I would be applying for full custody as soon as. I dont get why Simon drags his feet over it saying that the child should stay with the mum. Something just does not add up, he has all these concerns about the boy, wants what is best for him and then doesn't do the most obvious thing and apply to have him for good. Just seems like alot of excuses to me.

RAS

Zoetoes

This is none of your business and it may be very unwise for Simon to discus this matter further on open forum.

sjc3

simon4amiee wrote: »

Funny how a dad who might I say has paid for my son throughout his life, even when I realised I had arrears I quickly got them paid. i moved towns yes. I used to have to give her money in her hand on the morning I was paid without exception, no waiting till dinner, no I had to truddle into town at 6am to get her money. Since we moved towns, she still wanted this to happen, so I refused, and said she could have when my son came, she wasnt happy and threatened me, I just had enough, so refused her the money in her hand and went through CSA, this way she would have it as soon as and I would have a record.

One of her posts which is completely random, was "Just been outsode to f**king have a go and this pr*ck of a women, and I would of smashed her fu**ing head in, if my daughter want there, thank god she takes after me and gave her fu**ing what for, I am so proud", this is her speaking of her 9-10 year old girl, and publicly posting on facebook!

I will happily PM anyone who wants full details, I dont need to defentd myself, I have been balckmailed, threatened, my wife assaulted, and all because i left this bitter woman, who for years until I made a stand, walked all over me because she knew I would do anything to see my son!

Yet all this time you have left your son with her. Knowing full well what she is like and what kind of an upbringing she will be giving him. I know you mentioned the child wished to stay with her and not move schools. However as an adult you would surely take the responsible difficult decision to override this as it seems very much in the best interest of the child to be with a more balanced, responsible parent. Your son would have re-settled with you easily enough and made new friends. How badly does she have to treat your son before you will finally step in and apply for full custody?

Zoetoes

RAS wrote: »

Zoetoes

This is none of your business and it may be very unwise for Simon to discus this matter further on open forum.

Then it shouldn't be on an open forum in the first place.