MSE Parents Club Part 11

tarajayne

cazscoob wrote: »

thanks Tia am here in tears as im just finding it all too much? his behaviour is getting worse and my house is wrecked because of him. i dont even want to be left alone with him as i cant turn my back for a second.
he doesnt say very much and when filling out a from yest i was asked to put my concerns about his speech down 0 being none 10 being very concerned, i put 7 and she put 9/10! i dont know what will happen until next week once he has been to see ST.

Sorry, I don't know what to say to help. DS1 had speech and learning problems but his behaviour was always good. Didn't want to just ignore you either :A. Wish I could help. XXX

tiamai_d

tarajayne wrote: »

I got all the Next stuff I wanted last night.

Cool! Pretty dresses?

cazscoob wrote: »

thanks Tia am here in tears as im just finding it all too much? his behaviour is getting worse and my house is wrecked because of him. i dont even want to be left alone with him as i cant turn my back for a second.
he doesnt say very much and when filling out a from yest i was asked to put my concerns about his speech down 0 being none 10 being very concerned, i put 7 and she put 9/10! i dont know what will happen until next week once he has been to see ST.

We don't notice cos we're mums and they are our babies and there is nothing wrong with them. Then someone points something out and we have to actually notice it, and it's hard. You are allowed to feel stressed and upset and !!!!ed off, we've all been there. It's draining dealing with a child who is so full on, you cope and cope and cope and then you hit a phase where you just can't anymore. Does your OH help with him or is it all left to you? Is there anything he likes doing that will keep him occupied for a little while? Get some body paints and sit him in the bath (no water) or something?

Hope you get something sorted out, I can't really offer any advise because it's different circumstances to us. But we're all here for when you need to blow off steam, PM boxes are open and everything!

3onitsway wrote: »

Maybe if i'd been a SAHM from the start I could have been in one of their cliques! :eek:




We may also have soon, some totally legal Mr Tumble dvd's.

They tried to get me to join the cliques, but I'm too stuck up for them and told them all to go pull their husbands off their girlfriends and shut the !!!! up

Totally legal like?

BeenieCat

*mops brow*

Just put the cotbed up, took me the best part of two hours. I reckon it's a 2 person job for the first bit lol!

It's darker than my bed, but looks nice anyway

tarajayne

No Tia, no dresses, pain when she's crawling. She had hers tucked into the top of her tights this morning. It was a shared order for my friend and DD as they didn't get an invite.

Fishcake_Random

Well I am now at Daddy's shop and having a few minutes to myself as he has some daddy cuddles. I only got 1oz down her in the end and shes zonked out again. lol Shes never going to grow at this rate.
I'm getting some weird pains in my scar/wound like a bee sting for a few seconds. Anyone else get this? I think its just were its healing but its pretty uncomfy and just want to double check, is it where its drying out?
x x x x

kindofagilr

Hugs Caz and AF xxx

HV just been, Elliot has lost half an ounce so thats all ok, I am going to stop stressing about his eating now lol, I didnt think he was drinking enough milk but looks like he is which is good

ladybirdintheuk

afternoon all. Big hugs for Caz and AF.

AF - can you get someone else to take over for an hour or so on the weekends so you can get a nap in?

ladybirdintheuk

oh fishcake - what is with the alphabet in you sig? I keep meaning to ask you!

angelfairy

cazscoob wrote: »

AF we are having the same thing here, Erin wakes screaming and nothing will settle her like a bottle of milk. she also wants me to carry her everywhere or sit on my knee if dad is around she isnt as bad though? today i strapped her in her pram and put her in front of the TV to get a break from her constant screaming, i hope things get better for you soon as i cant imagine having to work and deal with this too!

feeling a bit fed up today, everything seems to be getting to me and i told Oh last night i felt like i couldnt do this anymore. i feel so tired and its tiring at the nursery as Charlie plays up a lot and i get very stressed. nursery noticed and are going to take him alone on tuesday and they have also got the speech therapist coming. there were a few converstaions about him yesterday and they have been going around my head, i know im glad of the help but its hard when you are being told all the things your child should be doing and their concerns about him, its just making me feel worse (sorry i needed to get this out)

oh caz, we can have a hug and a cry together, although you need the hug more than me.

charlie is your baby, as others have said, and please dont feel bad. i underestimated just how pulled into a million different directions as a mum, and you also have so many other factors in there.

((((hugs))))

Fishcake_Random

Lady bird its from the competition thread, trying to win the full alphabet of prizes for 2010. So if I win a t-shirt I can cross off T or if I win flowers I can cross of F etc. Kinda fun, I love my comps.
x x xx