MSE Parents Club Part 11

Glamazon

Natalie85 wrote: »

gemini wasnt too bad last time i went, you could get on the car park if you got there for 7.

the christmas one i didnt even bother, they were parked all round the roundabouts and roads leading to it!!! :eek:

if my friend is going I'll get her to pick me up. can always park in IKEA or Toys R Us and walk. If not I'll have to take OH's car as mine will be blocked in!

agggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh I need cash for my pizza MS tonight!
OH said as the reimbursment doesn't cover full cost of a decent size pizza he wants his tea first and then pizza when he gets munchies later!

cazscoob

AF we are having the same thing here, Erin wakes screaming and nothing will settle her like a bottle of milk. she also wants me to carry her everywhere or sit on my knee if dad is around she isnt as bad though? today i strapped her in her pram and put her in front of the TV to get a break from her constant screaming, i hope things get better for you soon as i cant imagine having to work and deal with this too!

feeling a bit fed up today, everything seems to be getting to me and i told Oh last night i felt like i couldnt do this anymore. i feel so tired and its tiring at the nursery as Charlie plays up a lot and i get very stressed. nursery noticed and are going to take him alone on tuesday and they have also got the speech therapist coming. there were a few converstaions about him yesterday and they have been going around my head, i know im glad of the help but its hard when you are being told all the things your child should be doing and their concerns about him, its just making me feel worse (sorry i needed to get this out)

workinmummy

Hugs for AF and Caz. x

tiamai_d

cazscoob wrote: »

feeling a bit fed up today, everything seems to be getting to me and i told Oh last night i felt like i couldnt do this anymore. i feel so tired and its tiring at the nursery as Charlie plays up a lot and i get very stressed. nursery noticed and are going to take him alone on tuesday and they have also got the speech therapist coming. there were a few converstaions about him yesterday and they have been going around my head, i know im glad of the help but its hard when you are being told all the things your child should be doing and their concerns about him, its just making me feel worse (sorry i needed to get this out)

(((HUGE HUGS)))

It is hard, but it's a good thing. It means that his issues have been picked up and something will be done to help him. Does he talk, or will they be using Makaton with him? (because I have a 'totally legal' CDrom with lots of folders of signs and symbols that fairies can copy and forward)

He is still your baby boy, he's not changed overnight just because certain words have been said.

tarajayne

(((Hugs))) Caz. X

Sorry, friend turned up and we ended up having lunch.

I got all the Next stuff I wanted last night.

cazscoob

thanks Tia am here in tears as im just finding it all too much? his behaviour is getting worse and my house is wrecked because of him. i dont even want to be left alone with him as i cant turn my back for a second.
he doesnt say very much and when filling out a from yest i was asked to put my concerns about his speech down 0 being none 10 being very concerned, i put 7 and she put 9/10! i dont know what will happen until next week once he has been to see ST.

3onitsway

Becles wrote: »

There was a boy like that in Josh's class. He had ADHD and he was a handful, so nobody ever invited him to a party. I just didn't have the heart to leave him out, so I invited him to ours in the community centre with traditional party games and dancing. I had so many stupid comments from other parents like "oooh you're brave inviting Kieron."

Aw, thats so sweet. It must have made the boys day (and his mums!).

The LO in L's class doesn't have anything wrong with her, she's just a spoiled little princess who doesn't know how to play nice or share (at 9 :eek:).

workinmummy wrote: »

I CBA with any of the playground politics, or the mothers who have to have their kids at the front of the line, so they can speak to the teacher every day, as they think they are "in" with them. Rolls eyes again.

:rotfl:We have those mums too. I didn't notice so much when I was working, as you said, i'd get Liv into the line the run to the car to get to work. Now i'm not is a rush to get anywhere, I see the little groups of mums who have noting better to do than hang around the playground !!!!!ing!

Maybe if i'd been a SAHM from the start I could have been in one of their cliques! :eek:

tiamai_d wrote: »

(((HUGE HUGS)))
(because I have a 'totally legal' CDrom with lots of folders of signs and symbols that fairies can copy and forward)

He is still your baby boy, he's not changed overnight just because certain words have been said.

Well said Tia!

We may also have soon, some totally legal Mr Tumble dvd's.

tarajayne

cazscoob wrote: »

thanks Tia am here in tears as im just finding it all too much? his behaviour is getting worse and my house is wrecked because of him. i dont even want to be left alone with him as i cant turn my back for a second.
he doesnt say very much and when filling out a from yest i was asked to put my concerns about his speech down 0 being none 10 being very concerned, i put 7 and she put 9/10! i dont know what will happen until next week once he has been to see ST.

Sorry, I don't know what to say to help. DS1 had speech and learning problems but his behaviour was always good. Didn't want to just ignore you either :A. Wish I could help. XXX

tiamai_d

tarajayne wrote: »

I got all the Next stuff I wanted last night.

Cool! Pretty dresses?

cazscoob wrote: »

thanks Tia am here in tears as im just finding it all too much? his behaviour is getting worse and my house is wrecked because of him. i dont even want to be left alone with him as i cant turn my back for a second.
he doesnt say very much and when filling out a from yest i was asked to put my concerns about his speech down 0 being none 10 being very concerned, i put 7 and she put 9/10! i dont know what will happen until next week once he has been to see ST.

We don't notice cos we're mums and they are our babies and there is nothing wrong with them. Then someone points something out and we have to actually notice it, and it's hard. You are allowed to feel stressed and upset and !!!!ed off, we've all been there. It's draining dealing with a child who is so full on, you cope and cope and cope and then you hit a phase where you just can't anymore. Does your OH help with him or is it all left to you? Is there anything he likes doing that will keep him occupied for a little while? Get some body paints and sit him in the bath (no water) or something?

Hope you get something sorted out, I can't really offer any advise because it's different circumstances to us. But we're all here for when you need to blow off steam, PM boxes are open and everything!

3onitsway wrote: »

Maybe if i'd been a SAHM from the start I could have been in one of their cliques! :eek:




We may also have soon, some totally legal Mr Tumble dvd's.

They tried to get me to join the cliques, but I'm too stuck up for them and told them all to go pull their husbands off their girlfriends and shut the !!!! up

Totally legal like?

BeenieCat

*mops brow*

Just put the cotbed up, took me the best part of two hours. I reckon it's a 2 person job for the first bit lol!

It's darker than my bed, but looks nice anyway