MSE Parents Club Part 11

Sami_Bee

nikkit72 wrote: »

moning all,
Am still feeling like I want to cry again, have to see MW tomorrow for 10 day check up tomorrow will tell her how I'm feeling.
Got OH kids round today, really don't feel up to them running riot , but can't upset OH by mntioning it, as he only sees them on saturdays and don't want to be blamed for them not coming round , been there before and its not nice. One thing is , they won't have kids programmes on my tv as I will be in living room with Thomas .
Thomas is fast asleep on me at mo, and it makes tears in my eyes when I look at him and see how content he is . X

it could just be the baby blues but do talk it over with anyone you can (us included) can you get away for a little walk for a bit? Are you BFing? or can you get away on your own for a bit too?
Its no fun feeling sad and having to have kids running about is it xx

Glamazon

tarajayne wrote: »

Glam, once you've done a complaint to Pals, can you add more? DD just rang and it's come out today that Poppie had Pneumonia (spelling?) but Bristol never told her. A doctor today was talking about it and she overheard, but Exeter assumed that she knew that's what the treatment was for. And there was another blood test that DD said was not very nice, Bristol lost the results twice so did it 3 times causing Poppie a lot of distress. Another Mum in Exeter has said Bristol lost her sons blood transfusion donation that was brought in, they had to order a second!

I would just send an email saying
'Further to my previous email we have since found evidence of poor communication between clinical staff and my daughter. Sacha was not informed that Poppie had Pneumonia and had to be told by Exeter what certain treatments were for. This is unacceptable as parents should be kept informed at all stages of a childs care and I shall be adding this to my long list of concerns with your hospital.'

Becles wrote: »

:rotfl:

Ignore the catty comments on the MS thread at the moment. It's not usually that nasty, and I suspect we have visitors from another site adding fuel to the fire

Kindof - thinking of you and hoping things start happening and go well today xx

Off to uni this morning for a tutorial.

Hehe I thought it was funny!

:oApologies for my drunken ramblings, yes I do have a hangover and a very bad head. Although not all bad, apparently I was so flat out in bed that OH got up to see to Jack at 12am AND 1am :j

Sami_Bee

elle_gee wrote: »

Is he?

See, it was really weird being told that yesterday, particularly with so much (winefuelled!) enthusiasm... Made me feel really odd :cool: I think I need to remind myself what I've got..

you mean you don't think so? :rotfl:

I know you do really I too would find it weird though, was she sounding a bit like she might want to try and seduce him :eek:

elle_gee

Sami_Bee wrote: »

you mean you don't think so? :rotfl:

I know you do really I too would find it weird though, was she sounding a bit like she might want to try and seduce him :eek:

Well yeah, course I do.. maybe I'd just forgotten! :rotfl:

She's very happily married with a 17mth old DD She's only met him once but she was saying how nice it was to meet someone so polite, with such good manners (he met her at the BFing info session we went to, and shook her hand when I introduced them and said thankyou for the support she was giving me/us). She called him distinguished!

Then she was talking about another of the girls hubbies and said something derogatory (sp?) about his age.. apparently that guy is 35 - I had to remind her Craig is 37

Sami_Bee

See good manners cost nothing but but make a lasting impression

kindofagilr

3onitsway wrote: »

Kindof Good luck! I suspect you may have a baby before the weeked is over.

Thank you, I really hope you are right, OH has gone depressed lol cos he thought after last night itwould have got closer to having babynow he thinks baby is taking too longlol

Thanks Sj me too, when would you ring MW? is it when they are 5 mins apart for an hour? how long are they meant to last before you ring? I hope you feel better soon xxx

(((Hugs)))) NIkkit, deffo mention everything to the MW xxx

Me and OH went for a little walk before, I am going to have some fried egg sarnies in a min, then I might drag OH for another walk

When I get on the ball the pains stop, did anyone else notice this??? and I dont thinkI get them whwn I stand up? (or I havent noticed) does this mean they arent it? or just that its really early labour

cazscoob

nikkit huge *hugs* remember you have not had an easy time of it since DS was born how you managed to cope with no heating or hot water amazes me!! i think ex is just stirring things and as you have enough on your plate it is just fuel for the fire! i can completly understand that the last thing you need is to have kids running around when right now you just want to curl up. It will get better, a lot of us on here have had problems recently and sometime just getting it off your chest and talking on here makes you feel better. I agree talking to your HV should help. xxx pm if you need a chat xxx

AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH erin managed to take her nappy off and has an upset stomach, have just scrubbed my hall, bathed her and put her back to bed. when is this going to end?? am still not dressed!

SugarSpun

Big hugs nikkit. Talk to your HV - and to us - as often as you need. You're doing a fantastic job under what must have been really difficult circumstances and it'll get easier. :grouphug:

Come on KOAG.... long walks preferably up and down stairs

I made the mistake of reading about the Bulger killer going back into prison and now I'm utterly petrified of taking Molly anywhere. I want to wrap her up and make sure nothing even a bit worrying ever happens to her.

cazscoob

KOAG walking and getting OH to help out might getthings going!! i hope it all starts off and goes quick for you!!

jillie1974

ss- there's a group of FB that say the picture they have is him. (one who's gone back to prison) apparently he's been living in Moston, Manchester:eek:

morning everyone!!

kindof- how are you doing today??

glam- hows the head. :rotfl:at your posts last night