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MSE Parents Club Part 11

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  • Mazcabs
    Mazcabs Posts: 2,108 Forumite
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    Am I bad Mummy for letting Henry sit in a bucket?

    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=11760472&l=71e898aec4&id=799340299

    He prefers it to his bouncy chair today and it means I can get on with stuff. It seems pretty untip-up-able but I have surrounded it with cushions just in case!

    My sister tried to put William in the toy supermarkett trolley and he got stuck yesterday :eek::rotfl:
    SusanC wrote: »
    Unfortunately I only have one relative I give presents to who has pierced ears and that is the one who gave them to me.

    Thats typical isnt it..
    Mum to 2 lovely boys who keep me busy.
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    It was very good MFD - but I was very poorly on Saturday. :(

    Argentinian meal was gorgeous, and I stuck to fish being a good catholic girl, much better than expected. (and Fellaini http://colunistas.ig.com.br/futebolingles/files/2009/07/fellaini-celebrate.jpg was sat at the next table! A bit gutted really as some friends were in a spanish restaurant two doors away and a pile of Liverpool players were in there.

    We drank too much and danced to cheesy 80's tunes :o and got home after 3am!
    :beer:
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    edited 16 November 2010 at 5:56PM
    Am I bad Mummy for letting Henry sit in a bucket?[LINK REMOVED]

    He prefers it to his bouncy chair today and it means I can get on with stuff. It seems pretty untip-up-able but I have surrounded it with cushions just in case!
    not a bad mummy, maybe a bit of a copy cat though [LINK REMOVED]:p
    they do tip though so good plan with the cushions
    Yay for taking a bottle! We found that Benjamin needed to be hungry but not starving when hubby gave him a bottle and that I needed to be out of the way. The minute Benjamin got upset there was no way he would take one.

    Caz got Erin to take one by wrapping it in her T-shirt.

    If I had another I would definitely introduce a bottle by 6 weeks, or as soon as BF is well established, to prevent problems. Loads of my RL mummy friends have babies who won't take a bottle at all.


    Why don't you use your MIL being there to do the housework (in another part of the house of course!!!)



    I have now not been BF for 5 days, nothing to report on my boobies, they appear not to have noticed!! When can I go and be measured for a new bra? I don't think I have changed that much but would like to check (and to have the excuse to buy new bras ;) )
    I definitely agree with the bottle thing! #3 will be given a bottle about 3 times a week as soon as BF is established, I love my babies more than anything but 10 months having only been away from Edgar on about 5 occasions and all for less than 3hrs and in the daytime has really got to me!

    Dunno about the new bra thing but someone (tia?) said theirs changed after their first period after stopping...
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • Sami_Bee wrote: »
    I definitely agree with the bottle thing! #3 will be given a bottle about 3 times a week as soon as BF is established, I love my babies more than anything but 10 months having only been away from Edgar on about 5 occasions and all for less than 3hrs and in the daytime has really got to me!

    Dunno about the new bra thing but someone (tia?) said theirs changed after their first period after stopping...

    The problem is that I don't really have periods on this silly pill I am on (I do seem to bleed on and off all month round though!!).

    The first thing my now-mummy-friends said to me when I went to booby club was 'get him on a bottle asap if you want him to take one'. I think Benjamin was maybe 2 1/2 weeks.

    Just checked my phone and there is a pic of him having his first bottle on 7th April 2009, a year ago tomorrow. He is SO tiny :A
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • Somnium
    Somnium Posts: 1,734 Forumite
    Ooh intresting stuff about when to give ebm, was planning on doing a bottle feed soon but then keep thinking sod it and just never get around to it. I know we talked about going to cinema next month so might be a good idea to start soon so she gets used to it.

    Gisi - love the pics of H :)

    right off to try upload a vid of Tahlie from my phone!
    Baby :female: Tahlie Lois born 15/3/10 7lb 12 oz :heartpuls
    Working on baby no2 :D
  • always29
    always29 Posts: 477 Forumite
    yay! 12 noon and we are both dressed for the day now, what slobs! Only so I can go for a walk and a coffee and wander past shops and be deeply un-:money:

    I think Tom had his first bottle of EBM when he was under a month old and doesn't seem to have done him any harm. Until Friday, he'd only had at most half a dozen bottle feeds and I don't know what his daddy did on Friday but Saturday morning when I was feeding him, he was holding the bottle himself! What really has amazed me is that while I was determined to bf, I wasn't sure how I'd get on with it, let alone stick with it for the recommended 6 months but how amazingly easy and convenient it is, and I can see now why ladies do it for longer.
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    afternoon ...

    had my driving lesson didnt go too well :( really annoyed at myself because i knew it ...

    having fuss with very at i ordered a washing machine (a large load one) and because of the hols they've been major mess up with the orders .. now after sorting it out .. its coming just dont know when *shrug* ..

    how is everyone ... i should be going to the shop but i cba x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • nikkit72
    nikkit72 Posts: 2,458 Forumite
    edited 6 April 2010 at 12:31PM
    hi all,

    havent been on alot recently, how is everyone , you all chat to muh to read back ,

    My hormones playing me up again, getting upset over silly things again , here goes,

    OH gets email from ex saying hes girls are bored over school hols , can he come and take em out to park etc , instead of her fat !!!! getting off sofa to do it , ok he says, hes mates text him and ask him to play com games , he says ok , bare in mind , when ever i ask him to do stuff with me and my kids he has an excuse , i.e go for a walk , go to park , go to town he says im doing stuff ( when hes blantanly not )he has belly ache and cant go away from the toilet ..when he looks fine... he cant understand why i have got upset over hes ex emailing ,and he does stuff for her staright away with no excuses and not me , OMG here i go again with the waterworks, im alwasy 4th best to everything with him recently , and he wonders why im so cold to him , and these things just make me feel less and less feelings for him.

    oh and i ahve my first proper period today too,
    Dont forget that little Thanks button , only takes a sec
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    ((hugs)) nik .. but you do realise its working if shes putting distance inbetween you two .. also i dont think he realise how hes making you feel maybe sit down and talk about it .. dont shoot me but you have to remember he does have other children and it must be hard to try and give everyone time .. keep everyone happy and still have time to be himself ... just dont let her win x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    This is why I don't exercise...just doing some yoga on the Wii Fit and the phone rings not once, not twice, but THREE times in the middle of various poses. So I gave up and had my lunch (need to do that before Finn wakes up or I won't get another chance for a long while)...watch, now it won't ring again all day :p.
    top 2013 wins: iPad, £50 dental care, £50 sportswear, £50 Nectar GC, £300 B&Q GC; jewellery, Bumbo, 12xPringles, 2xDiesel EDT, £25 Morrisons, £50 Loch Fyne

    would like to win a holiday, please!!
    :xmassmile Mummy to Finn - 12/09; Micah - 08/12! :j
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