Frightened about my future

savingwannabe

Hello everyone. Wow a busy morning i see. Well done Pixiechick you will feel much better now NID is involved.

LillythePink i know when you referred to a loophole you meant it in general terms. NID she wasn't having a go. She is a nice person. He gets v protective cos he is superhuman, very sensitive and probably exhausted too. (I am guessing). Please dont be worried and do come back to us.

Ann i am really concerned about you. Why do you think you are going to lose your house? NID is here. You are safe. Most of the debts will be unenforceable (don't even know what that means lol. You are all way ahead of me). There is no way you will lose your house.

I am sending you a PM. Big hugs. Off to counselling at 3.

pixiechick_2

By the way NID - my equifax report is showing all green at the moment!!!

pixiechick_2

never-in-doubt wrote: »

You need to go back to my older post before I can answer any of the questions above!

Sorry NID!!!

pixiechick_2

My daughter and baby granddaughter have just arrived so speak to you all later.

mouseann

savingwannabe wrote: »

Big hugs. Off to counselling at 3.

Thanks SW,

As usual, you are putting other people before yourself!

Hope the counselling goes well.

mouseann

pixiechick wrote: »

My daughter and baby granddaughter.

Oh bless,

enjoy their visit - and make the most of it!

They grow up so quickly ....

savingwannabe

Ann i have sold 4 Cd's on ebay now in a few hours. I can't believe it. I have made £6. Mind you they all cost me £10-14 to buy each!!!!!

mouseann

Hello all,

Thought I had better clarify my comment about the possibility of selling my house.

This was not intended to imply that I thought that unenforceability thing would not work. I have every confidence in NID and his thorough knowledge of the system and the way he is holding my hand through this.

However, since retiring I have been thinking that I would like to be nearer my son and his family (I have a little grand-daughter of nearly 8 months) and would like to see more of them on a regular basis. They live nearly 120 miles away. Also, now I have more spare time I would like to explore somewhere different. I may even get another job - although I am well over 65! Therefore, a move while I am stll (relatively!) fit does seem a good opportunity for all this.

So, I am not being negative.

But, bless you for your concern and kind words, SW. They are much appreciated.

savingwannabe

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/741653

A fantastic piece of entertainment for anyone who is worried about horrid phonecalls. This is an old favourite but i have pinched it from a new thread posted today by Memory Girl in her thread Need Cheering Up.

savingwannabe

Ann sweetie thanks for letting us know. You are allowed to feel negative, but i dont want you worrying as we all think the world of you.

NB. If anyone reads the above thread i don't think anyone should copy it.

Only follow NID and UK George's advice.

But it is like Nargleblast's strategy of putting the phone in her undies drawer when she gets stressful phonecalls a funny way to deal with a potentially worrying situation.