was upset now turning to anger

LisaLou1982

iamana1ias wrote: »

Says more about you than it does me

Most weddings/marriages are a farce anyway.

Why are you so mean? If you dont agree with something that has been posted then you have the option not to post. Why upset someone? Do you get a kick out of it? What a sad individual you are.

This forum is here for people to support each other, let off a but of steam at what is obviously a stressful time in their lives, and get advice about things that might be nice for their weddings.

Ive seen your posts on other parts of these forums and you never have anything nice to say on any of your posts. No wonder so many people block you

student_advisor

iamana1ias wrote: »

Originally Posted by beks
I really am not bothered whether you are male or female.

I hope you are a little fussier when it comes to your beloved! :eek:

I think you'll find that we don't discriminate on this board...

bigmomma051204

Do you know what Rene....? I almost felt sorry for you - about how your bridesmaids are not kind enough about what YOU like.... you know, when you explained and implied to us all how it made you feel rubbish that people were not appreciating YOUR ideas for your wedding... i mean we all have our personal choice don't we.....?? And it would be cruel to just "put down" any idea or choice which someone had for their wedding....??


SO.....explain to us all your comment on the thread on this very board where an excited bride to be has spent time making (beautiful!!) Pew Ends for her wedding..... and you came along with THIS comment

"I bet it would be cheaper just to buy flowers for the ends"...................


Hypocrite??


I wouldn't like to comment. But it surely sounds like double standards to little old me

Whats that old saying about treating others how you would expect to be treated yourself.....?

rene2b

beks wrote: »

I think rene posted like that due to the reaction of a previous poster who was slating her reaction. I really don't think she meant it as a general registary office downer on people. Don't take offence, I think the responses to her post initially were very harsh and of course that put her in a reactive mode. I could be wrong but I think on here, we all understand we have different tastes and needs.

i didnt want to reply again but i just had to say beks as it in one
like shell says everyone to them selfs if u want to get married in a church/reg office/abroad then thats up to you i shouldnt have said that IM SORRY i was just mad and didnt mean to upset any1
i thought the post was from xxxxxxxxx sorry cant spell

bigmomma051204

Any comment on my last post?? :A

rene2b

nickyhutch wrote: »

Thanks frannyann. I think you're right, but it'd be nice if rene would say so too :-)

nicky im sorry i didnt mean it like it came across
frannyann as said it better then i can
are we still friends

pretzelnut

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

Do you know what Rene....? I almost felt sorry for you - about how your bridesmaids are not kind enough about what YOU like.... you know, when you explained and implied to us all how it made you feel rubbish that people were not appreciating YOUR ideas for your wedding... i mean we all have our personal choice don't we.....?? And it would be cruel to just "put down" any idea or choice which someone had for their wedding....??


SO.....explain to us all your comment on the thread on this very board where an excited bride to be has spent time making (beautiful!!) Pew Ends for her wedding..... and you came along with THIS comment

"I bet it would be cheaper just to buy flowers for the ends"...................


Hypocrite??


I wouldn't like to comment. But it surely sounds like double standards to little old me

Whats that old saying about treating others how you would expect to be treated yourself.....?

i think your just stirring up trouble.

I understood what rene meant but then i was brought up with a tolerance for others and an understanding that sometimes things get taken out of context very easily on forums and everything should be taken with a pinch of salt.

I think rene meant that unless you have oodles of buttons sitting around the house that you have collected for quite some time, or happen to stumble across a massive box full in your chosen colour for a bargain price - it wouldnt be cheaper to make the button pew ends herself, as i have tried and couldnt get that anount of buttons for a few pounds, maybe im looking in the worng place. They actually cost a lot more, which is why rene said it would probably be cheaper to have flowers.

However she could have worded it better.

rene2b

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

Any comment on my last post?? :A

ya i wasnt being nasty the op said she wanted to save money in the church but she did say the buttons cost alot of money and when i posted that comment i just popped on/off as i was busy with the kids but if you look down the post im sure i said they were lovely im sure i did

bigmomma051204

rene2b wrote: »

ya i wasnt being nasty the op said she wanted to save money in the church but she did say the buttons cost alot of money and when i posted that comment i just popped on/off as i was busy with the kids but if you look down the post im sure i said they were lovely im sure i did

No.... you didn't. You just said the comment about flowers being cheaper. The way it came across wasn't very kind or friendly..... others have commented....but my point is NOT to berate you...simply to point out that sometimes people can be dismissive and cruel without meaning to be...maybe you are more like your bridesmaids than you realise......we are all human

nickyhutch

rene2b wrote: »

nicky im sorry i didnt mean it like it came across
frannyann as said it better then i can
are we still friends

Thanks for apologising reneb