was upset now turning to anger

rene2b

ok my dress maker is charging my dress(plz see my dress in the other thread)im having crytrals put all over the top and taking a layer of tulle off the bottom of the dress so i can remove it at night
anyway last wk i had to take my bridesmaids to have there dress fittings while we were there i wanted them to see me in my dress and there reaction wasnt what i expected :mad:

they just sat there going'ya its ok'ya its nice'
but what are our dressess like?can we have this that and the other'

all i wanted was for them to say aww you look lovely in it
it might just be me but it really upset me and now its turning to anger and im now thinking of just telling my sister and best friend to just forget it

and to top it off they both keep complaning about my hen do :mad:
i think that will get cancaled at this rate

im i being silly?:( or turning into a bridzilla :eek:

Stephb1986_2

They are probably jealous let them get on with it love I don't think anyone will understand what amount of stress we're in when we're planning a wedding and we must also understand that it's not as important to them because it's not their day they will probably feel the same as you when it's their day.

Steph xx

rene2b

i kno but there ment to be my sister and best mate and i nearly came home in tears my h2b said the same but all things were running through my head!was it not nice,did i not suit it,was it the colour,

chris_n_tj

I bet they are so jealous of you. After all here you are planning your big day with the man you love, and what have ythey got? I bet you look stunning in your dress, and all this is just pre wedding nerves. Its better to get them all over with now so you can enjoy your big day. Although I havnt seen you on your dress i will say i know you looked beautiful in it, all brides look beautiful so just remember to smile and be happy.
Chris n TJ xx

iamana1ias

I'm voting bridezilla. I'm sorry but your 'big day' just isn't that important to anyone else, and expecting them to wet themselves over a mountain of fabric and sparkles is rather unrealistic.

I doubt very much that they are jealous at all. Perhaps they have a healthy sense of reality (where you seem to have lost yours).

No offence.

Dave101t

they may be jealous, just keep checking your tacky-o-meter to make sure thats not the problem.

tabskitten

iamana1ias wrote: »

I'm voting bridezilla. I'm sorry but your 'big day' just isn't that important to anyone else, and expecting them to wet themselves over a mountain of fabric and sparkles is rather unrealistic.

I doubt very much that they are jealous at all. Perhaps they have a healthy sense of reality (where you seem to have lost yours).

No offence.

Totally agree!!

and thats exactly why i am having a registary office do!!:rotfl:

shellsuit

What did you think of your dress?

I wouldn't expect anyone to fawn all over me, but I would at least imagine that I'd be told my dress was lovely and not just 'ok'.

pretzelnut

I thin your all being a little harsh, of course the OP doesnt expecther bridesmaids to gush into tears but a simple comment of ''oh all that sparkle is gorgeous'' or ''i absoliuelty love the colour'' along the lines of saying it with a bit of enthusiasm not just brushing it all to one side. I can understand where the OP is coming from, if her bridesmaids cant say ''its gorgeous'' it puts you on a bit of a wobbler and makes you question your decision to choose it wherer or not youfeel its perfect. All the OP is asking is for a bit of support from her briedsmaids. Which isnt too much to ask really.

Okay its nice just wouldnt cut it with me. I would march them to the nearest charity shop and buy them 1980's peach puffy shouldered dresses and when they say they hate then and are you crazy say NO I THINK THERE OKAY!

Dave101t

wow.
the princess has spoken, i hope her hubby doesnt own any rabbits.

frannyann

rene2b wrote: »

im i being silly?:( or turning into a bridzilla :eek:

You are neither, but you do need to take a chill pill

It could be that they were so excited about seeing their dresses, they didn't realise that they were not 'excited' enough. Or they could be self centered sods, either way you love your dress and thats all that counts. My lovely, darling, clever, witty daughter's reaction to my dress???........



'Yeah, its okay, you look less skinny than normal'





Anyone what to adopt an almost 13 year old :rotfl: