was upset now turning to anger

rene2b

iamana1ias wrote: »

I'm voting bridezilla. I'm sorry but your 'big day' just isn't that important to anyone else, and expecting them to wet themselves over a mountain of fabric and sparkles is rather unrealistic.

I doubt very much that they are jealous at all. Perhaps they have a healthy sense of reality (where you seem to have lost yours).

No offence.

so in reality the dress doesnt count oh well i might as well go and order the dress the 'tramp'as on :rotfl:

rene2b

tabskitten wrote: »

Totally agree!!

and thats exactly why i am having a registary office do!!:rotfl:

if i was having a registary office wedding i wouldnt even bother with a dress,bridesmaids and everything elsa to be honest
i only count on getting married once so ill have the big dress that IM paying for :T

iamana1ias

rene2b wrote: »

so in reality the dress doesnt count

Not really, no. (But clearly neither do grammar and spelling )

Quite why it's such a big deal to grown women I'll never know. The amount spent on the damn things is obscene, and they rarely do anything for the wearer (who will tend to look like an overgrown child playing dress up - quite ridiculous).

Simple weddings are much more elegant.

rene2b wrote: »

oh well i might as well go and order the dress the 'tramp'as on :rotfl:

I'm already imagining something like this from your description

rene2b

princesswoo wrote: »

I thin your all being a little harsh, of course the OP doesnt expecther bridesmaids to gush into tears but a simple comment of ''oh all that sparkle is gorgeous'' or ''i absoliuelty love the colour'' along the lines of saying it with a bit of enthusiasm not just brushing it all to one side. I can understand where the OP is coming from, if her bridesmaids cant say ''its gorgeous'' it puts you on a bit of a wobbler and makes you question your decision to choose it wherer or not youfeel its perfect. All the OP is asking is for a bit of support from her briedsmaids. Which isnt too much to ask really.

Okay its nice just wouldnt cut it with me. I would march them to the nearest charity shop and buy them 1980's peach puffy shouldered dresses and when they say they hate then and are you crazy say NO I THINK THERE OKAY!

hahahaha i think i might just do that
i think a trip to springhill charity shop is called for
:rotfl::rotfl:


ps thanks hun well said

iamana1ias

rene2b wrote: »

if i was having a registary office wedding i wouldnt even bother with a dress,bridesmaids and everything elsa to be honest
i only count on getting married once so ill have the big dress that IM paying for :T

Is it this one?

pretzelnut

:silenced:

rene2b

iamana1ias wrote: »

Not really, no. (But clearly neither do grammar and spelling )well ive done well for myself without it

Quite why it's such a big deal to grown women I'll never know. The amount spent on the damn things is obscene, and they rarely do anything for the wearer (who will tend to look like an overgrown child playing dress up - quite ridiculous).

Simple weddings are much more elegant.



I'm already imagining something like this from your description

yep thats my dress i also have the money to go with it

rene2b

iamana1ias wrote: »

Is it this one?

no but i know the family

iamana1ias

rene2b wrote: »

yep thats my dress i also have the money to go with it

That's lovely. I'd have spent it a little more wisely on some basic literacy lessons, but at least you'll have enough fabric to make car cleaning rags for the rest of your days.

ETA, sorry........... did you mean the one on the left or the right?

iamana1ias

rene2b wrote: »

no but i know the family

chav-tastic :beer: