Reformed shopaholic? please can you give me the benefit of your advice

Anglea

Hi all

I only just remembered late last night that MM and I haven't discussed his arrival time all week, I have a recollection when he first bought the ticket he told me the time it was due at Bristol, hope he didn't get an earlier one as I thought I'd get changed into the nice outfit about an hour before I was expecting him, to avoid any spills. I'm still in my nightwear

Even after I went to bed I kept getting up as I had forgotten to do things. Got up a final time to make a list. Done a few this morning but leaving the rest.

Hair went strange. I wasn't expecting to have to sort it out this morning..

FR, I can understand the need to get in touch, you obviously really like him, especially after the visit you want to reconnect. If it was me I'd be emailing straight away.

It could be because you don't say anything about how you feel, that BYM believes it's ok not to talk to you much. You might have to spell it out or else you'll be thinking about it all day.

ziggles50

Frogletina wrote: »

Hi Anglea, girls

I really want to text or message Bym.

It's too late to text, and it's for the wrong reason anyway. I'll wait until I have something to tell him, instead of just wanting to send any old message in the hope that he will reply.

Why do I have to feel like this?

Why can't you just send any old message and expect him to reply like a normal person would?

Anglea wrote: »

Hi all

I only just remembered late last night that MM and I haven't discussed his arrival time all week, I have a recollection when he first bought the ticket he told me the time it was due at Bristol, hope he didn't get an earlier one as I thought I'd get changed into the nice outfit about an hour before I was expecting him, to avoid any spills. I'm still in my nightwear

haha- in your pjs to avoid spills on your pretty dress- you're so funny.:rotfl:I am sooo the same! I wouldn't even get washed until just before to avoid any other issues! (read nervous tummy)


FR, I can understand the need to get in touch, you obviously really like him, especially after the visit you want to reconnect. If it was me I'd be emailing straight away.
I would want to but resist- for fear of looking too needy

It could be because you don't say anything about how you feel, that BYM believes it's ok not to talk to you much. You might have to spell it out or else you'll be thinking about it all day
Because boys are not that clever when it comes to these things- and that's me puttting it VERY politely.

GOOD LUCK Anglea;)- remember we want details- and lots of them!

Frogletina

Hi Anglea

and breathe

Wishing you all the best for today :j

After reading your thoughts on the matter I have texted Bym, telling him what I am doing today etc. Told him I am missing him.

I think I will send him an email maybe later today or tomorrow. I have a photo I took of him here which I can send and perhaps ask a few things too.

Frogletina

Ziggles

I don't want to come across as needy, which I think I do (because I am) but I also want to be free to communicate when I want to because I want to be me

I don't see him responding as a normal person, because he's anything but a normal guy.

Anyway, the text is sent and it's anyone's guess if he will respond today.

So I'm off swimming and then to see my daughter this afternoon and book club this evening, so I'll update late afternoon or tonight!

Anglea

Hi all

I got changed straight after posting as I heard a commotion at the front door, it was the paper, but really got me worried.

I don't see that contacting them straight away will be interpreted as needy Ziggles, if it's someone that is supposed to care for you especially after they 'stayed over'.

Well done FR for texting him. I think it would play on your mind if you didn't.

Sometimes I think of a friend of mine who was a single mum, two young children. The sweetest girl in the world. Whenever she met a man, they all treated her very similarly to what I read on here and I couldn't understand why she put up with it.

I really want you both to find some really nice men that treat you right.

If MM's coach is on time, it will be arriving in 5 mins, then it depends on what time bus he catches to my house. Wondering whether neat Pimms is a good idea or not as it's getting nerve wracking now.

ziggles50

NO NO NO!!!!!
Neat pimms??????? OMG then he arrives and you smell like an alcoholic- well before 12 thirsty! good grief!:eek::eek::eek:
Deep breaths and think happy thoughts- he is already a friend:)

ziggles50

Frogletina wrote: »

I don't want to come across as needy, which I think I do (because I am) (Aren't we all) but I also want to be free to communicate when I want to because I want to be me


Anyway, the text is sent and it's anyone's guess if he will respond today.

Well done to you for feeling the fear and doing it anyway:j

Anglea wrote: »

I don't see that contacting them straight away will be interpreted as needy Ziggles, if it's someone that is supposed to care for you especially after they 'stayed over'.

Well done FR for texting him. I think it would play on your mind if you didn't.- (co-sign):)

Sometimes I think of a friend of mine who was a single mum, two young children. The sweetest girl in the world. Whenever she met a man, they all treated her very similarly to what I read on here and I couldn't understand why she put up with it.-
When you find out let me know, i'll write the book and we can all cash in on it!- Funny thing is we aint stupid- we can see it happening, our loved ones tell us, but.......:o

I really want you both to find some really nice men that treat you right.
Live in hope:cool:

Anglea

I'll take your advice Ziggles, no Pimms

Hope you enjoy your activities FR and remember everything for the book club.

Ziggles have a good day too.

I'm going to put on my boots now and sit in the living room and try and relax.

Bye

Frogletina

Hi all

Got a lovely reply to my text this afternoon from Bym, and he said he was going to send me the photos he took

So we have now exchanged our photos of the visit and he says I look so beautiful

I wonder how Anglea day is going! I guess he is still there as she has not come back on to tell us otherwise.

It's been an exciting week

ziggles50

Very exciting indeed!
Glad BYM replied so positively- always nice to be appreciated;)
Can't wait to hear about Anglea's MM visit- wonder if he's gone now?