After an affair

kalonasum

Guilt is the killer of all relationships - if he cant get past his own no matter how much you forgive him it wont work - get some help, talk to a professional I have just split with my husband of 15 years and and seriously confused about how it happened and as much as I dont want it to be over it is maybe thats what you need to consider. Things never end well or they would not end - Good Luck I hope you can make it work but it has to come from both of you xx

Pollycat

As the OP has posted only once on this thread - and that was on 29th January - who knows what the current situation is right now....... :cool:

They may be together.
They may have split up.
The OP may be deeply in love with somebody else.
The OP's OH may still be seeing the 'other woman'.

With respect and IMHO, Kalonasum, old threads like these are best left to die a death - especially when the OP never comes back and comments on "what people think".