Miscarriage support

elliebobs

Tinkwings; just lurking around and noticed that you're on CD1; that's great news. I remember posting a reply to you some time back when you were getting, understandably, upset at her not showing.

It does feel great doesn't it to know that everything is 'working'.

Onwards and upwards now.

Ellie x

tinkwings

elliebobs wrote: »

Tinkwings; just lurking around and noticed that you're on CD1; that's great news. I remember posting a reply to you some time back when you were getting, understandably, upset at her not showing.

It does feel great doesn't it to know that everything is 'working'.

Onwards and upwards now.

Ellie x

Thanks Ellie It is a huge relief to know that my body has finally decided to kick itself back into working order. Went into MMC and noted my CD1 it told me it was 100 days since my last AF. :eek:

Back on the TTC road again now and all that brings.

Love & Hugs to all you amazing ladies I couldn't have done this without you all. xoxo :A

portsmouthali

Well, the witch showed for me today too. Am quite tearful today, feeling scared of getting pregnant again as I can't face another mc, but am also scared of leaving it too late and never having another baby. Damn biological clock! I don't know what I want! I so wish I was still pregnant :(

Hope everyone else is OK xxxx

tinkwings

Afternoon ladies.

Feeling odd today AF has all but finished so that is good news

But I feel totally scared/ terrified about the fact that we can now try again. I know that having a child with DH is something that I want more than anything but since MC it is now the thing that also scares me the most too

I have been having wierd dreams which I think aren;t helping it just feels both exciting and terrified. Sorry just feeling like a freak is this normal?????:(

tinkwings

portsmouthali wrote: »

Well, the witch showed for me today too. Am quite tearful today, feeling scared of getting pregnant again as I can't face another mc, but am also scared of leaving it too late and never having another baby. Damn biological clock! I don't know what I want! I so wish I was still pregnant :(

Hope everyone else is OK xxxx

Hi Ali . Me too I feel just the same way xoxo

Metranil_Vavin

Hi Tinks...the way you are feeling is completely normal hon.

TTC again is taking up every inch of my brain-space at the moment, and I am finding it hard to concentrate on anything else!

It's only natural that after the trauma of a mc you are going to feel scared. I still check the loo roll after I've been for a wee now, even though the mc was over 5 weeks ago and I'm not due on again for another 2 weeks!

But..the chances of going on to have a successful pregnancy are pretty much the same as if you'd never had a mc..so don't stress yourself out before you've even begun

Your AF coming back is great news :T It means your body is getting back to normal and is ready to try again. Just make sure that you give your mind the time it needs to heal too..which may be longer.

For me, trying again straight away is what we want to do (and have been!). I know that if/when I get my AF this month I'll be really disappointed, but again you can't borrow anxiety from the future..as my mum always says!

lil_madwife

hi guys, sorry to hear about all those sad loses.

Can i join you, sadly today i had an early scan at 7 1/2 wks that confirmed all was indeed not well and i a missed miscarriage.

Very upset as im sure you guys will completely understand.

The clinic gave me options of giving nature a chance or having a D+C. I dont know what to do and to be onest probably not thinking locigally about it. Swaying towards letting nature do its thing but at the same time don't want it to drag on forever.

There is just so much going on and so far 2010 has been the worse year of my life many family problems health wise to much to go into, and this is just another thing on the pile and i don't think i could cope going through an operation.

Sorry for the rant, just wondered if anyone has experiences of D+C or letting nature do its thing?

tinkwings

lil_madwife wrote: »

hi guys, sorry to hear about all those sad loses.

Can i join you, sadly today i had an early scan at 7 1/2 wks that confirmed all was indeed not well and i a missed miscarriage.

Very upset as im sure you guys will completely understand.

The clinic gave me options of giving nature a chance or having a D+C. I dont know what to do and to be onest probably not thinking locigally about it. Swaying towards letting nature do its thing but at the same time don't want it to drag on forever.

There is just so much going on and so far 2010 has been the worse year of my life many family problems health wise to much to go into, and this is just another thing on the pile and i don't think i could cope going through an operation.

Sorry for the rant, just wondered if anyone has experiences of D+C or letting nature do its thing?

Hello & welcome So sorry to read your news HUGS

I had a missed MC in January we went for a private scan and there was no hearbeat. I opted for an ERPC/D & C as I didn't want to been given tablets and left to go home. For me I wanted to have it dealt with so that I could come to terms with things. I also had a call from a friend who had 2 MMC's the first she had tablets the 2nd she opted for the operation & said that given the choice she would have the operation.

You are more than welcome to PM me if you wish xoxo

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Hi Tinks...the way you are feeling is completely normal hon.

TTC again is taking up every inch of my brain-space at the moment, and I am finding it hard to concentrate on anything else!

It's only natural that after the trauma of a mc you are going to feel scared. I still check the loo roll after I've been for a wee now, even though the mc was over 5 weeks ago and I'm not due on again for another 2 weeks!

But..the chances of going on to have a successful pregnancy are pretty much the same as if you'd never had a mc..so don't stress yourself out before you've even begun

Your AF coming back is great news :T It means your body is getting back to normal and is ready to try again. Just make sure that you give your mind the time it needs to heal too..which may be longer.

For me, trying again straight away is what we want to do (and have been!). I know that if/when I get my AF this month I'll be really disappointed, but again you can't borrow anxiety from the future..as my mum always says!

Hi MV thanks. I know you are right. Just getting me freaked. I love your mum's quote I will have to remember it xoxo

MERFE

lilmadwife, I've had 3 mc and all natural, I thought I might get the d and c the last time but its was a complete mc at the scan so wasnt needed. The first one was very painful though. Its a difficult decision sometimes its best to have the op and get it over with so you can move on, for me I felt I needed that physical pain for it to feel real. I dont think any way is easier or has less complications so its just what you decide.


AF has arrived today at last so at least I can feel normal again, was starting to go a bit crazy. We wont be trying again for a little while at least 3-4 months, its so hard still though when its something we have been trying for for so long, need to start thinking about other things but I cant.