Miscarriage support

Metranil_Vavin

hehehehe! Glad it's not just me :beer:

tinkwings

Morning Wierd day DH & I both on day off as it should have been our 12 week NHS scan today :(

Instead we are spending the day together and testing cup cakes for our blessing reception. We are also going to plant our Camelia in a new pot that we got as our remembarance for our Bean.

Take care ladies xox :A

Leopardlady

Morning ladies, well AF has arrived, a lot earlier than i was expecting, although it is good news in some ways as potentially my body is going to settle quite quickly?!! Lets hope.

I am uncomfortable and irritable and it is very heavy! It started very suddenly with no warning, which is quite odd for me, although my body has been thinking it didn't need anything like this for over 3 months so i suppose strange makes sense!

Oh well roll on the end of this AF and then we can get back to dtd like crazy

Small bag of maltesers on my desk as my OH gave me them as a little Valentines gift that should help

Metranil_Vavin

Good news Af has shown up LL...I've been sitting here trying to work out when mine may be due. If I hadn't had a MC, then AF should have been making an appearance this coming w/e, but who knows!!!

At least once it arrives you can start to track where you are again and get cracking again!

Hope everyone is having an ok Monday.
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tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Good news Af has shown up LL...I've been sitting here trying to work out when mine may be due. If I hadn't had a MC, then AF should have been making an appearance this coming w/e, but who knows!!!

At least once it arrives you can start to track where you are again and get cracking again!

Hope everyone is having an ok Monday.
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Yes good News LL how long have you waited for AF to arrive?

MV I am like you have been trying to work out when AF may be due but really have no idea. I said to DH this morning what if we do get caught before it does (fat Chance!) but if we did how long do you wait?????

Leopardlady

Hi ladies, I was over 12 weeks pregnant by the time i had my EPRC and that was 4 weeks ago. So i have been very lucky, I am not sure i can help, every body is different and i had not even tried to work out when my af would arrive as I was worried about how sad it would make me. But today, other than the pain, i am feeling quite happy that my body is getting back to normal.

Good luck to you all and try not to think too hard about when everything should be getting back to normal. Try and make the most of life, start enjoying it as much as you can, and you can get back into the ttc as soon as your af arrives or you can be the very lucky one who does catch before first af!

I would wait until at least 6 weeks following the end of the mc before testing if you can hold out that long, as i believe some people can take up to 6 weeks to stop bleeding in the first place!

Hope this helps and take care everyone

tinkwings

We have just planted or rememberance plant for our lost bean. I have a photo on my Face book PM me if you want to add me as a friend & you can see.

(I can work out how to add a picture on here! )

XOXO

stef240377

I started to mc on NYE and bled for 24 days in total but since then i have not had AF. Did pg test two days ago and it was -ve. Have been dtd every other day but for pleasure rather than bd so i dont have a clue when AF will/should arrive. Like many of you have said atleast when it does you have an indicator of where your at but this seems like im in no man land.

Metranil_Vavin

Hmmm I'm not sure officially when I had my MC as I didnt have a ERPC, mine just happened naturally.

From memory I started bleeding on January 16th, and then continuously until the day I went back to EPU and they confirmed the MC..bled a bit more after the internal scan that night, but think it had pretty much stopped by the following day or two, so around 29th Jan.

So I bled for about 13 days. I wonder when AF may put in another appearance?

Sorry for TMI but I seem to be having a lot of discharge at the moment. Not odd in anyway, just a lot of it...all very confusing.

We DTD on saturday with no contraception, but how on earth would you know if you were preg or not????

I am confusedbird.com!!!!

billybobberyl

i am sorry i feel lucky compared to some of you guys, i started to bleed on the sunday 26 nov, went to hospital that day and by weds had all gone, 5 days later bled again for 5 days but not sure if it was end of mc or AF. had next AF 11 jan so wasnt long really.
but a friend of mine had a 12 wk mc and didnt get AF for 3 months, so i would be sod waiting!