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MSE Parents Club Part 10

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  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    Glamazon wrote: »
    it does :(

    I'm too pale & eyebrows too light - might see if I can get them tinted

    Mine always looks too dark to start with, but it either fades or I get used to it.

    I want a spray tan - i'm bored with the pale and interesting look. Has anyone had one? A place up the road has a special offer on St Tropez but i'm scared of turning orange.
    :beer:
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks Fitz, i don't know why i'm struggling with the idea of cutting him out completely, but i will get there. I also don't want my kids exposed to drugs and would have always said i'd never even go near one myself because they are compulsive liars!

    He says he's clean already because he's on a methadone programme and they drugs test him apparently before they give him his prescription to prove he's playing ball and not just picking up the methadone to sell on (i imagine??).

    Realistically i don't know how access would work as he's 120 miles away and has no car, and there's no way i'd drive her down there for him, like his ex wife does!! And to see her regular he'd have to live here. That's why i suggested applying for a cheap council flat up here, although IMO he could just get one private rented and get another job, he's qualified to do different things so it's not like he's restricted! (fitness instructor, hotel manager and some metal testing inspector? lol) But in his eyes that's all too much hassle and he wants me to just have him move back in here. The fact i ached so much after decoraitng on my own when heavily preg is enough to make sure i won't let that happen.
  • elle_gee
    elle_gee Posts: 8,584 Forumite
    SugarSpun wrote: »
    .. Elle, I'm sorry yours is being such a willy head - is there any chance he'll figure it out?

    I'll bloody well spell it out to him if I have to, though I'm not sure it'll sink in. It's £35 to cancel the hotel opposed to the £87 it'll cost to go or cancel after 5pm tonight. Have txt him to tell him that and his reply just now was "go anyway, might give me a chance to make it up to you and finish what I planned". Not sure I actually care any more.

    (yes I'm being pigheaded and stubborn and stupid and selfish, but it was my birthday and I damn well deserved more effort than he put in *stomps foot*)
  • Squishy
    Squishy Posts: 721 Forumite
    Fitzio wrote: »
    On a brighter note, Squishy - I just got a Taggie Doll through the post too. I actually ordered a Taggie blanket the other day from Jojo Maman Bebe, and thought they had sent the wrong thing for a minute! Holly is chewing it to death already. x

    Hehehe Elena is nomming the face off this poor doll just now: I think it's a hit :rotfl: You should hear the squelching noises! :D
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hey, i've just had a brainwave

    I need to drive to Tesco cos i ordered some stuff from Direct for collection.

    They're coming to deliver my groceries from the same store, u reckon they'd bring my Direct order? It's in the next town and i cba to drive there
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Sami, a friend said that they don't go alone with the leaders until they're in proper Scouts, but he'd be a Beaver so parents all go too. But i'm sure i won't be the only single parent and with a younger baby. I wouldn't have a clue about camping :o
    ....
    oh you wouldn't get me camping nevermind with a load of kids :rotfl:
    I don't know what age is what, just remember my friend who's a scout mentioning looking after 'the little ones'
    3onitsway wrote: »
    Mine always looks too dark to start with, but it either fades or I get used to it.

    I want a spray tan - i'm bored with the pale and interesting look. Has anyone had one? A place up the road has a special offer on St Tropez but i'm scared of turning orange.
    I've had st trop sprays before, you won't be orange with them,
    make sure you think about what your wearing when you go, I always wear my own knickers but they offer you paper ones, you need clothes and shoes to be loose, a shirtdress is ideal coz you don't have to put it over your head, you can't go out after one until you've showered (and it smell mingy) and sleep on an old towel coz otherwise you'll have brown sheets!
    as soon as you get home wash your palms :cool:
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • elle_gee
    elle_gee Posts: 8,584 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Hey, i've just had a brainwave

    I need to drive to Tesco cos i ordered some stuff from Direct for collection.

    They're coming to deliver my groceries from the same store, u reckon they'd bring my Direct order? It's in the next town and i cba to drive there

    I've always had to sign for Direct orders and show the card I used to pay for it :(
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    beenie, tesco direct is actually a separate business you've got no chance coz they hgave to follow protocol
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • elle_gee
    elle_gee Posts: 8,584 Forumite
    :rotfl: Even the MIL has just called round with a card and bunch of roses for me! I never cease to be amazed for all the wrong reason! :cool:
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    oh Elle hope this isn't a bad time to ask :o but do you know where the finger print charm is from? I wan to get the boys done but want a good price :cool:
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
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