MSE Parents Club Part 10

Sami_Bee

SusanC wrote: »

Phew. I just have no idea what would be "normal" as I have no memory of my mum ever saying it.

Aww at not remembering if your mum said she loves you
My Mum doesn't ever remember being hugged by her parents Her domino glueing point is showing love, I was hugged to death growing up and Christopher & Edgar are too I think as long as you are saying/doing it genuinely (which I'm sure you are!) it never losing meaning.

I get all fuzzy inside now that Chris has grasped what it is to love and comes up randomly to hug me and tell me he loves me :A

helen81_2

Happy birthday Elle :beer:

SM- I had a look for you and I've a few cardi's/jumpers and long sleeved tops in ages 8 and 9, oh and a grey school pinafore dress is thats any good to you too? You want? x

How often do I have to post to be classed as a 'regular poster?' I promise to try post more often, rl just sometimes gets right in the way!!

weezl74

Sarah_Joanne wrote: »

Ok lovely, thanks for that. Glad you can get a liner too.

Is it easier for you to arrange the collection rather than me arrange it then you send me the money? £16 seems quite reasonable. I can be in any time too.

Sure, I'll do that. :A If I clear some space in my inbox we can talk further!

Sami_Bee wrote: »

My Mum doesn't ever remember being hugged by her parents Her domino glueing point is showing love, I was hugged to death growing up and Christopher & Edgar are too I think as long as you are saying/doing it genuinely (which I'm sure you are!) it never losing meaning.

yay for the domino gluing of Sami's mum *wells up*

And yay for susan doing it too with Alice *wells up again*

Susan/sami from what age do you feel they understood?

elle_gee

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Just get a paddling pool. Then you can use it as a pp in summer too...

...and if Rhys is anything like Benjamin the balls won't stay in the pool for long!!

*is so glad that Benjamin gets to mess up someone elses house with his balls*

I can't zip him in this then... :whistle:

redmel1621

Virgin are coming tomorrow...OMG I can't wait.......we all obviously hate each other as all we have done since having crap/no internet is argue, all of us!!!

1-6pm the engineer is due tomorrow:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j I couldn't be happier:D:D:D:D:D:D

Sami - I got your facebook message......but what are you trying to say, that I need another baby to fill that 3rd seat;)
I think we are stopping here, I have always said I wanted 4, even though I always pictured myself with 4 boys, I am immensely happy and sorry about my room moan the other day, and not coming back on, internet went off and couldn't get it back on......I will sort out something room-wise that suits us all:o

Love ya all:D

helen81_2

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Do any of the Supermarkets sell clothes that you can order to be delivered with your shopping?

Benjamin really needs some new vests but I don't have time to go shopping - his 9-12 month ones look like scoop neck because they are stretched so tight. Full on baby camel toe!!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I was thinking that about Ethans 0-3 vests this morning,that they look scoop necked vests!

helen81_2

BM- sorry you're feeling so down about whats happened with your mum, I am totally rubbish with words so don't have anything useful to say so have a virtual hug instead :grouphug: bit dodgy looking but u get the gist. xx

My_Fathers_Daughter

For some reason I can only multiquote 1 person today??


My mum and dad never tell me they love me, but deep down I know they do! They are not big huggers and kissers either.

I am the exact opposite and take time to tell my friends and hubby that I love them and I am a big kisser as everybody knows

Benjamin already has a special reaction to me when I tell him I love him - kind of a crinkly nosed grin - and sometimes he races across the room with a big open mouth to give me a kiss for no reason - gotta love that!!

weezl74 wrote: »

yay for the domino gluing of Sami's mum *wells up*

And yay for susan doing it too with Alice *wells up again*

Susan/sami from what age do you feel they understood?

It's never too early IMHO. Benjamin started to show affection a few months ago (like Fergie and his forehead touching!)


Bizarrely I feel really wierd when hubbys family say that they love me I am happy with hugging and kissing them but just can't seem to tell them I love them? Maybe because I haven't 'chosen' them IYSWIM

SugarSpun

Oh effing eff, I went to have a bath and left my ebay alone, came back and someone's sniped me!!!

I wanted to ask something but have forgotten what it was.

Edit: I know that my mother must have told me she loved me - but I can't remember her ever saying it. She does hug me, but since I moved out only when we first meet and when we leave. But with my mother, the domino point I'm trying to keep in mind is that when Molly has sibling/s I don't want her ever to feel like there's a favourite.

SusanC_2

Sami_Bee wrote: »

My Mum doesn't ever remember being hugged by her parents

Oh I remember that - when I was 22 I had a (minor) car crash and when my mum turned up, the police officers said, "Give her a hug" so she did. Apparently when I was very small I used to crawl away when she tried to give me cuddles - I think she still holds it against me.

weezl74 wrote: »

Susan/sami from what age do you feel they understood?

It's hard to tell before they can talk. I'm sure Alice understands now (age 2 3/4) and has done for a while but I don't think I could say a definite age.