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MSE Parents Club Part 10

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  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    random thing ........ im really craving apple crumble *shrugs* x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    And there was me trying to be as delicate as possible.

    What Fitzio said, actually. If I was in that position I'd suggest that if it happened again I'd be packing his stuff while he was at work and he could enjoy uninterrupted sleep at his mother's while figuring out that being a grown up and a father entails a loss of the stuff we were used to before.

    I found it hard when OH first came home from the hospital because as far as he was concerned he was coming back into an established routine, not realising that the routine had changed because Molly was a month older and bigger and needed less sleep and more interaction. And even though I spent a lot of time fuming for various reasons I knew he was trying his best and that was ok. It doesn't seem like your OH is, he seems very excited to be living with his brother and it's like playtime and somehow you've taken over the mummy role for everyone so he can behave like the older brother. Not ok.
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  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    edited 22 February 2010 at 12:47PM
    pinkpig08 wrote: »
    I have a small square dining room which is one end of an L-shaped kitchen/dining room. My current table is the Ikea leksvig gateleg table, but it's too big really. We have one end down and the other up but I don't like it. We have the matching chairs but need new ones. Anyone any ideas on a 4 seater smallish dining table? Are square ones or round ones more space saving?

    I saw something on tv the other day, possibly 60 Minute Makeover?, they said that round tables were more space saving.
    ETA What about one of those foldy-up ones where the chairs store inside.
    Like this http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Deluxe-Butterfly-Folding-Pine-Dining-Table-4-Chairs_W0QQitemZ360237488329QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_Home_Garden_DiningRoomFurniture_SM?hash=item53dfd3d8c9

    Is anyone watching This Morning. This poor man (now woman) did his own sex change op with needle, cotton and superglue! :eek:
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  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    yer im watching it 3 very sad x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    Yes I'm watching - the poor man/woman.
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  • Glamazon
    Glamazon Posts: 8,401 Forumite
    his parents live 4 hours away unfortunately.

    Just gonna tell him tonight that if he ever does it again then I'll leave for a week with Jack and see how he manages to fend for himself.

    Right, I need to get some housework done before I meet Sami later x
    A very busy Yummy Mummy to a 1 year old gorgeous boy :smileyhea

    Where does the time go? :think:
  • pigpen wrote: »
    Glam.. I'd wake him every night for a week every time I had to get up to go see to J or go to pee (actually mine got the message after 2 nights lol) .. if I had to kick him or whatever.. I'd be putting the bedroom light on and flinging duvets and sheets around.. is he 3??? He'd need more than earplugs.. selfish, inconsiderate, ignorant turd!! Does he think you ENJOY getting up 10 times a night?

    *mental note never to cross pigpen*

    :eek:


    To be fair, I think sometimes we rant about the bad bits about our OHs and don't bother telling people about the good bits. I think having BIL there has made Glams life harder than it needs to be (if ANYBODY suggested moving in with us whilst we had a small baby they would be told where to go in no uncertain terms!!). And I think having BIL there may have made it seem even more like Mr Glam can still be a kid.


    A good talking to is def the way forwards Glam. I would approach the subject of BIL staying too. It has been long enough for him to find his feet. Once you go back to work will you be expected to work, look after Jack, OH and BIL?? Sounds like a recipe for a very unhappy mummy if you ask me. xx
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
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  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    Did anyone see them make the fish pie on TM last week? I'm going to try and do it later - sorry for a daft question but how do you wilt spinach? Do you just boil it for a few seconds/minute? Never had spinach before!
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  • weezl74
    weezl74 Posts: 8,701 Forumite
    Aless if you're around, please can you help me?

    What do Americans call these?

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    I am having problems with the USDA food database...

    xxx

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  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    edited 22 February 2010 at 12:54PM
    PP I just throw carefully washed spinach into a frying pan and put some heat under it till you can see it start wilting. No boiling!! No steaming!!

    Weezl marrowfat peas are just marrowfat peas in the US :)

    Edit: try also maro, because that's the Japanese name and apparently there's some usage of both names. Are you looking for nutritional information?
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