MSE Parents Club Part 10

searching_me

omg to both glam and beenie ..

beenie i hope you get it sorted thats a rip off and also one of the reasons i left british gas im on EDF .. hate BG and Npower ..

glam very childish of OH .. remind me again which one of them to is not even one yet ...

just playing with jayden he's happy to play with you for abit then likes his own space ... already a man *rolleyes* x

SugarSpun

Beenie, how ridiculous - I hope you get it sorted today.

Glam, sweetie, please don't take this the wrong way but taking revenge on a baby is behaviour that needs to be addressed now rather than later.

PP I always think the square ones look neater, which seems to be more space saving IYSWIM?

searching_me

pp id go for one of those side folding tables ..very good space saver but that just me x

Glamazon

SugarSpun wrote: »

Beenie, how ridiculous - I hope you get it sorted today.

Glam, sweetie, please don't take this the wrong way but taking revenge on a baby is behaviour that needs to be addressed now rather than later.

PP I always think the square ones look neater, which seems to be more space saving IYSWIM?

Oh I know! Unfortunately he can be quite spiteful and is like a totally different person if he gets woken up at night, don't know why.
I'll be having words tonight - it's his brothers fault because the agreement was always that if Jack was having a bad night I would go in the spare room to sleep but I obviously can't! I spent almost 2hrs on the rocking chair in J's room!

Fitzio

Glam - you need to sort your OH out. Who cares if he gets woken in the night - he has a baby!!! He needs to get used to it. You do as much as possible to deal with all the night stuff, but he needs to get his finger out and help sometimes and give you a flaming break. That is ridiculous behaviour. I am sorry, I am on another rant again, but really - he doesn't deserve you or Jack. He is a child and needs a kick up the ar*e. He is a father now and really should start acting like one. I am actually really angry reading these posts!!! I am sure he is a nice enough guy but I think he needs a wake up call. I would honestly lock the doors and send him back to his mum unless he can act like a grown up. I am going to go now as I fear I have probably offended you! Sorry. x

searching_me

fitz i have to say i love how you are .. straight to the point ... my type of woman :rotfl: x

BeenieCat

Glam, thank your OH for making me feel better about being single.

I think i'd still be with OH if i was as soft as you. His ex wife used to take herself and baby to sleep on the sofa if baby was crying or if he was snoring? I'd flicking love to. So i think he thought her doormat-ness was representative of all women. Clearly got a shock with me cos i expected things to be equal.

Not that i'm saying you're being a doormat or anything

[strike]ok u are a bit[/strike]

Glamazon

Fitzio - I know all of that, you've not offended me. He is like a child and I think he thought having a baby wouldn't change our lives - he keeps telling Jack if he's a good boy he can stay up at watch the footy but he doesn't understand that Jack gets tired around 7pm!

The silent treatment today and then words tonight will sort him out

aless02

Fitzio wrote: »

Glam - you need to sort your OH out. Who cares if he gets woken in the night - he has a baby!!! He needs to get used to it. You do as much as possible to deal with all the night stuff, but he needs to get his finger out and help sometimes and give you a flaming break. That is ridiculous behaviour. I am sorry, I am on another rant again, but really - he doesn't deserve you or Jack. He is a child and needs a kick up the ar*e. He is a father now and really should start acting like one. I am actually really angry reading these posts!!! I am sure he is a nice enough guy but I think he needs a wake up call. I would honestly lock the doors and send him back to his mum unless he can act like a grown up. I am going to go now as I fear I have probably offended you! Sorry. x

Damn, Fitzio beat me to it and was way more blunt than I was intending! DITTO. I'm a real grouch when woken up at night, so can DH be, but at the end of the day we know he doesn't wake up to be spiteful or intentional naughty - a baby is a baby! Sounds like the real baby of the family is your OH! I'm sure you love him, Glam, but this thread are scandalised on your behalf

pigpen

Glam.. I'd wake him every night for a week every time I had to get up to go see to J or go to pee (actually mine got the message after 2 nights lol) .. if I had to kick him or whatever.. I'd be putting the bedroom light on and flinging duvets and sheets around.. is he 3??? He'd need more than earplugs.. selfish, inconsiderate, ignorant turd!! Does he think you ENJOY getting up 10 times a night?